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174483 tn?1327625477

im seriously at a loss

ok, i am like a month late now, as many of you know, i tested and tested and tested up until 12DPO, all BFN, well today at target they had hpts on sale, so i grabbed one, took it when i got home BFP! i am at a loss, i was a firm believer that if you hpt the day after af is due, you can trust the results, well...i think i might have to think a little differently now, baby dust to all!
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174483 tn?1327625477
i tested up until 12 days after af was due** not 12DPO
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Whoa! That's exciting!

Are you going for a blood test?

I think I recall one woman here could not get a positive result on a urine test until she was something like 6 weeks pregnant even though she got a BFP on a blood test. I guess it definitely happens. Wow.

Please let us know how you're doing, okay?

Good luck!!!

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172023 tn?1334672284
You will get a positive on a home test when your HCG levels reach the level detected by the test.  Most times, this is not even listed on the test itself.  And of course its assuming the test was done on a FMU.  Some tests require much more of the hormone to be present than others.

You said you tested and tested up until 12dpo.  Well, at 12dpo, your period was still 2 days away, if you have regular, 28 day cycles.  So you could easily not have had enough hormone to react.  BTW, you said you are a month late??? You mean your last period was 8 WEEKS AGO? Wow!  Yes, this would be very unusual to not show a positive.  A month late means you EXPECTED your last period a month ago, and it didn't show.  

Or do you mean your last period was a month ago?  I'm confused, as always!  

In any event, congrats!  I am so happy for you!  
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Taysmommy corrected herself in her second post. She said it wasn't at 12 dpo it was at 12 days late for her period.

Wow, huh?

Just goes to show that HCG levels really are so all over the place!

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yeah!! congratulations!!
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166219 tn?1267487238
congratulations.  You just gave us all reason to believe it's not over till it's over :o) good luck
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172023 tn?1334672284
No, I didn't see the other post by her, I just went by what she put above.

HCG will show when the levels are high enough to be detected in the urine, depending on the sensitivity of the test.  

Very strange, but I'm still happy for her!  
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174483 tn?1327625477
ya im amazed, i dont know if it had something to do with me breastfeeding that it didnt show(i dont see why that would matter but thats the only thing i can think of!) the only expenation i can come up with is maybe my first ovulation was a surge with no actual ovulation, and then i "o"ed later and am not 8 weeks, but i will find out at my first visit i guess;)

according to my dates im 8 weeks 1 day, my last period was jan. 12th

and peekawho, i made a mistake;) i tested when i was 12 days late

and to add, i tested with clear blue easy when i was 7 days late, tested with ept when i was 12 days late.....

i guess im just a freak of nature! but at least im already 8 weeks into it, and miraculosly no symptoms!
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Congratulations!!
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186844 tn?1209154044
CONGRATS..........Have a HAPPY and HEALTHY 9 months
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178239 tn?1277405491
I think it's delayed o as well. I had all the signs this month when o was due and then nothing. Finally o'd 2 wks late! I bet the same thing happened to you. But, I'll take a delayed o w/bfp over normal o and bfn any day!!!! Congrats!!! :)
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174483 tn?1327625477
oh yea, doesnt matter how far along i am, im just so happy
thanks everyone
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162784 tn?1227296050
Congrats!!  I had to re-read your post thinking you made a typo and meant BFN.  But much Congrats to you and I guess it's true what they say, HPT doesn't show in everyone's urine right away.  I thought you had a blood test done when you were late???
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184622 tn?1258556367
WOW!  Gives us all hope!  Congrats!!!
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174483 tn?1327625477
i was going to have a blood test done, but i believed in those darn hpts being right, i hoped i was preggo, but rationally i thought there was no way, but as someone else said, i might have "o"ed at a different time then i expected, since i had the iud out, my cycles might have been messed up, so i may have"o"ed two weeks late or something makeing me 4 weeks, but only time will tell, then only thing im scared about is the day before i found out, i said to dh, i feel like im having a miscarrage, i figured i was about to start af or something, so im reallly trying to take it easy
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162784 tn?1227296050
Yeah, I hope you can take it easy.  I know you're thrilled and can't wait to find out exactly how far along you are.  Either way, it's so good to hear news like that. Now that you know, all of your symptoms will probably start LOL.  

Good luck!!
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