I totally understand! My DH and I actually had a big fight last week, because of all the TTC stress. It almost seems like it's taken over our lives....and everything we do has to be "scheduled" around doctor's appointments, IUIs, ovulation, etc. We're going to try to focus less on all of this too. Hopefully we'll both be able to celebrate a BFP soon, so we can look back at all of this and laugh at all the craziness ;-)
Take care, Karen, and best of luck with the home renovations. Sounds exciting!
Thanks Heather for your kind words. I was very dissapointed but in a strange way right now I feel like a weight has been lifted of my shoulders and I don't even have to think/stress about it. I have been doing some reading on the net, and yes the IVF does seem different to the ISCI, and you have to pay extra for the ISCI here too. We would be in a position in about six months (after our house is fully renovated) to try again. It gives me and DH time to just concentrate on our own relationship, because when I did IVF it felt like I was just focused on having a baby oblivious to anything else. It just dominated all your thoughts.
So, thanks again. I hope everything is going well with you.
xx
I'm not really familiar with the NHS, but just wanted to say that I am so sorry to hear about your failed IVF cycle. And I agree that it really isn't fair that you only get one try when the laws have just changed. How much does IVF cost in the UK? Is there any way you could try again on your own?
As for ICSI, I'm not sure if that should have been part of your protocol or not, but I know that here in the US, you have to pay extra for that. Hopefully someone else from the UK can give you some more info on this.
Take care of yourself, Karen! I hope everything works out for you.
HUGS!