so confused

[crossmyfingers3]

We tried for another little angel for a year and a half.We did the meds and all of the fertility things.  We gave up. We got pregnant. We just miscarried. Now I am so confused. I was fine with moving on and forgetting our dream of having finished our family. Now I am confused about how I feel. One part wants to go back to trying. Another thinks we should be finished as I never want to go through a miscarriage again. Hubby says he thinks we should be done. I am so confused!

[Marietta2000]

Oh, I am so sorry!!  But you know, maybe you need to listen to that little part that still wants to try, as in the future you may regret not trying again.  I'm wanting one more baby to add to the little boy and girl we have.  Try and talk it over with hubby, and let him know you're not sure if you're fine about stopping.  This could be your only chance, and even though it's hard to say, but the stats for miscarriage are high, so try not to make your decision on the fact you miscarried.

Best of luck to you!  I hope it all works out for you and your family:0)  Marietta

[jessiejames6802]

GO WITH YOUR HEART. IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU NEED ONE MORE THAN TRY. IF YOU DON'T FEEL THEN DON'T PUT YOURSELF THROUGH THAT. JUST BECAUSE YOU HAD A MISCARRIAGE THIS TIME DOES NOT MEAN IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN. AS TRY NATURALLY WITH BC AND IF IT HAPPENS THEN IT HAPPENS IF NOT THAN BE FINE WITH IT TO. I HOPE THAT THIS SHEDS SOME LIGHT FOR YOU. BEST OF LUCK!!!!