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Everything is over...

I was scheduled for a D&C today. But I did miscarry miserably on my own   on thanksgiving day. Today I was at the doctor for an u/s to check if everything had passed. It looked like everything had passed on its own and there was no need for D&C. Doctor prescribed some medicine so that my uterus would contract and will pass out any remaining tissues. Now its all over.. this was my second miscarriage and I don't have strength and courage to through this again. I still have three frozen embryos. I will wait for couple of months and decide what I should do next. Thank you very much for all your support and strength. Good luck to all.
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97615 tn?1212678589
so very sorry for your loss.  i hope that you will heal quickly and that someday soon you will hold a baby of your own so that your heart will heal too!!  :)
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166219 tn?1267487238
I wish you both the best during this difficult time.  know that we are here for you.  
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318181 tn?1336443496
I am so sorry about your loss. I've had two miscarriages as well. It's soooooo sad when you finally get pregnant to have everything you wished for for taken away from you. It's been a little over two months since my last m/c. and I'm just starting trying again. Getting help and support from everyone on this board has helped tremendously. Please know that we're all here for you, and that time will heal...

Take care of yourself!
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Oww i reread your post and I see you still have 3 frozen embies... I understand that right now you feel like you don't want to try anymore... thats how I feel..you'll give yourself a time...

So sorry you have to go through of this too..it is really painful...

God bless and take care...
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Its very difficult to even think about this. Why is that we have to go through this.. when there are other women around us.. who have kids one after the other... how is that... They would know the value of children. Why cant we have one.....???? Its very  hard... I cant take this anymore.
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I am sorry to hear about your loss. I pray that god gives you strength to go through this hard phase.  I know what you are going through. I am still bleeding too. Take care.. and my hugs to you.
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195145 tn?1255636447
It is VERY hard... Most of us have been there, done that... If you need us, we are here... This forum is a sisterhood... too bad we have this sisterhood... wouldn't it be nice if we could all just have babies at the drop of a hat!

Take time... heal... physically and emotionally... one of those embryos could just be the "one"
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OMG!!! I wish I can give you a hugs:(

I too had 2nd m/c on tuesday.. im still passing clots and bleeding rightnow.. on top of it my father passed away yesterday....I keep praying and hoping for a strength from God right now...

Take care...we will get through this.....
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