Pregnancy

[shawty106]

Hi guys, Not a while ago i have been diagnosed with a tiny cyst, been said that is the reason i have major period pains when i go through my cycle. Whats bothering is "I never got to ask questions at the doctor because i had major pains". My boyfriend and I have been trying to get pregnant now for the last four months and nothing is happening wish I knew why, but in my mind I am starting to wonder to why I cannot get pregnant is the problem with me,it it possible to get pregnant with the growth or it is just making it hard for me to be so...("crying")...

[ariellesmithe]

Another doctors appt. is definitely in order.  There are a number of tests that they can run to ensure that you and your partner have no problems that would prevent pregnancy.

As for the cyst, there are so many factors involved.  You can definitely still get pregnant with a cyst....I have a couple and fibroids and am 5 months pregnant with twins.  It can depend on the size, location, etc.


Best wishes! :)

[shawty106]

Thanks Annie,
We have spoken about it,he does want a kid badly as i do,always asks if the last time was the scoring one hoping that it is,I then go through my period getto said to tell him what is going on.

[AnnieBrooke]

I was merely responding to your concern "by now maybe my boyfriend just wonders if I can give him a kid or not."  It's been my continual experience that men (and boys, and boyfriends) don't lie awake worrying about their girlfriend's ability to give them children.  They don't necessarily want kids very much, very early, or very fervently, not the way women do.  You said basically, oh dear, maybe my boyfriend is worried that I can't give him a kid, but I would bet you he is probably more worried about whether his team will win the next big game.  

I am not saying that if he hopes you don't get pregnant, hopes will magically stop you from doing so.  However, if he DOES hope you won't get pregnant, you frankly have no business trying to get pregnant.  Both parents have to be on board for this plan, you can't unilaterally spring a child on a guy, it simply is not fair.  

If you do think he hopes you won't get pregnant, talk it over if you want to, and if you cannot bring him around to your way of thinking, it is time for a new boyfriend, or to adjust and be patient.

[shawty106]

If he hopes i do not get pregnant,that can stop us from doing so?

[amy8702]

Hang in there, in any given month you have a 20% chance of conceiving. Also, it usually takes a healthy couple up to one year to conceive. I would still contact your dr though and ask more questions.

[AnnieBrooke]

Or maybe he hopes you won't get pregnant yet.  Guys are not usually in a rush on this one.

[shawty106]

Thank you guys, it is just frustrating and upsetting because it has just been a while and by now maybe my boyfriend just wonders if I can give him a kid or not.

[AnnieBrooke]

Call the doctor and ask for another appointment.  Find out if you still have the cyst.  (Often they go away.)  Find out exactly why the doctor thinks you are having serious pains with your periods.  Ask if you can have an ultrasound.  Ask if you can have an MRI.  In other words, be more proactive, don't sit around like a victim, you are paying for your healthcare and deserve the chance to hear the doctor's diagnosis from his or her own mouth.  If the doctor blows you off, get a new doctor.

[Goranna]

*but it will happen for you, have faith <3

[Goranna]

Ah! Dont give up hope, you will be fine! we were trying to get pregers since March of this year and now im in week 17! I guess my problem was irregural periods , but i know how stresfull it can be! Feels like forever, but i