Hi,
My mum recently(6 weeks ago) died suddenly , she was only 40. Since then i have exrerienced my first " panic attacks" , Im now having up to 30 severe atacks a day, I stood out in the rain for 2 hours last week as i diddnt want to "die alone" in my flat i was convinced i was going to die. I am to scared to go to sleep at night as every night i feel im going to die in my sleep, the attacks then come on in the middle of the night , im absolutley terrified. I also have a permanent chest tightness, feeling sick and air hunger, i also am struggling to do simple things like house work in the day i just watch tv and go back to sleep i have little motivation. I was checking the symptoms on line and found it may be indigestion brought on by anxiety but im convinced its heart failure. I keep having images of my mum dead in my head and her in the ground, i also feel so guilty for the way i treated her at times, its no excuse but she was an alcoholic and opiate abuser and was extremely selfish and difficult at times, she had really lowered her drink intake and was doing so well........ the post mortem showed nothing so we are awaiting the inquest in june.
My husband was initally unsupportive and i was alone for the first 4 weeks after she died, he is now extremely supportive and the only way i can relax enough to sleep is when he cuddles me in bed and i feel safe, but i dont want to be so needy....
Im also addicted to codeine just like my mum , i dont drink and am tapering , i dont suppose this helps though
Has anyone suffered anything similar who could help me , im terrified and finding every day a struggle , i dont want to be like this
please help
jem xxxx