Hi Dr.,
I posted in the wrong section before and wanted to give you an update/more detailed analysis of my situation. I am a 20yr old college student living in the US. I recently had a very brief relationship (1 month) with another man about my age (23)--he was an uncircumcised Asian American. Before we did anything sexual, we talked about our past sexual history. The only thing that scared me about his past was that he said he was continuously nagged to have unprotected sex with his ex until he complied (once). This in mind, I decided to use a condom when we first had sex about 4 weeks ago, but it broke. I immediately showered after this incident and thought nothing of my risks. About 2.5 weeks ago, my partner and I were doing some fore play when he unexpectedly inserted my penis anally, unprotected. After about a minute, we both decided this was a bad idea, and I immediately pulled out. I also immediately washed my penis thoroughly with soap and water. Since this incident, we broke up for unrelated reasons. I have been very anxious about this event to the point where all I do is think of the possibility I have HIV. I have talked to him about it, and he told me that about a month after his last unprotected incident he was tested and was negative--he "swears he's clean". Since this talk, he cut all communications with me, maybe because of my neurotic behavior. Being completely anxious, I wanted to know my status, so last night I was tested for HIV, and it was negative. I know that this test would not cover the recent unprotected incident but I wanted to know my status. I read somewhere that washing after sex actually increases risk in UNCIRCUMCISED men; however, I am circumcised, but this still makes me nervous.
What is my risk? Should I be worried to the point that I am? How many people see a positive about 2.5-3 weeks after exposure? Thanks.