Despite how busy you have been over the past two weeks, your risk remains very low. As I understand it, all of your oral and vaginal sex exposures were protected by condoms. Condoms are very effective for STD and HIV prevention so that even if any of your partners happened to have HIV or an STD, you have been protected. You post also raises an issue about condoms. There is no reason to test used condoms with water. When condoms fail they do not leak same amounts of secretions in either direction, they break wide open. Thus, if a condom is intact and in place after sex, you are protected.
AS for kissing (including French kissing), masturbation ("fingering"), and oral contact with your partners' nipples, all of these are no risk exposures and do not put you at risk. Please note that during such acitvities it is normal for genital secretions to be transmferred from one person to another. This is still not associated with risk for HIV/STD transmission.
Thus, while there is nothing in your history or description to cause me to recommend testing to further sort things out, I would suggest at some point you consider HIV/STD screening. You describe sex with 8 partners. Thus you qualify for periodic STD "screening (testing in the absence of symptoms) because you have had multiple partners over a period of less than a year. As a matter of personal protection, we recommend annual testing for anyone who has had two or more sex partners in the past year (we consider this to be health maintenance- we also recommend you get your blood pressure and cholesterol checked regularly). There is no rush to do this and this is not a backward way of suggesting there is risk from the activities you describe, just good personal health. Hope this helps. EWH
Hi Dr! One more thing I also suck and lick their nipples, is that make my risks higher?