Welcome to our Forum. The exposure you describe is virtually no risk. Some would argue that you do not need testing at all. Kissing is no risk, even deep kissing and even with gum or dental disease. The quoted figure for HIV risk, if one has oral sex with an infected partner is less than 1 in 10,000 and, in my estimation that is too high. Some experts state there is no risk at all from oral sex. Neither of us on this site have ever seen or reading the medical literature of a convincing instance in which HIV was passed by oral sex.
In your case, even though your partner may have same sex as well as heterosexual partners, it is unlikely that the has HIV.
I know you have had HIV PCRs in the past following exposures of concern. I urge you to save your money on this one. If you must, go on and get a blood test in a few weeks (the result at 8 weeks would be definitive for you.
Hope this comment helps. Take care. EWH
Thank you so much, doctor.
You would have thought I would have learned my lesson from my first scare a few months ago :(
I appreciate your alleviating my fears. Hopefully this will be the last time I ever have to worry about this!