Hello, doctors.
I'm a young, sexually active gay male. From time to time I meet a man from the Internet and engage in safer sex practices like fellatio (mostly with me performing it) and mutual masturbation. I never engage in anal sex with these men, and I always, always ask about HIV status. My last test was two months ago and the result was negative. So, normally, I'm not very worried about HIV. However, I have a concern that I hope you can address.
About three weeks ago or so, I met such a man and I performed fellatio on him for a while. Toward the end of our encounter, I was lying on my back with my legs spread and he was masturbating over me. When he ejaculated, quite without warning, he aimed his penis downward and a small amount of ejaculate landed in my anal region. I moved as quickly as possible to gently wipe it away, and I doubt that much (if any) could have entered my body. Since he said he was negative for HIV, I thought nothing more of it.
This last Sunday, however, I got really sick. It occurred within the time range appropriate for ARS, so that's a little worrying. Now, the first symptom was a very sudden onset of nausea followed by a night of vomiting, abdominal cramps, and abnormal bowel movements. The next day, I had very uncomfortable muscle aches, body chills, and a temperature of 101F. Today, my temperature has hovered around 100F and I've felt tired and achy but not sick to my stomach.
I dug up some information, and it seems to me that vomiting isn't really a common ARS symptom (though fever and muscle aches are). The vomiting and abnormal bowel movements seem more in line with gastroenteritis to me, but I'm not sure about the fever, muscle aches, and chills. I did eat a caesar salad about twenty-four hours before the onset of the illness, so I guess it could conceivably be salmonella poisoning. Do you agree that gastroenteritis is more likely than ARS?
Thanks for your input.