Hi,
I am single, male and I never had sex (protective or un-protective; any intercourse or oral, even I never had hand job from any partner). I fit well in the definition of a virgin. I am from a religious background (Sorry for becoming unscientific here, but here is the root of my question). I am residing in US now. My question is naive, however I believe it would be helpful for many like me!
Well here is my scenario: One and half yr back, I travelled to Bangkok and before travelling I red about HIV and came to know it is much higher in this city, so I thought I would never have *any* kind of sexual activity. However, something happened...I cannot remember it exactly now, however I got text I posted at that time (Pls don’t read the doctor’s reply):
http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/Q206210.html
There was one more scenario, I took a lap dance, the dancer was nude and I ejaculated (I was wearning underwear + jean) within pants. NO fluid etc. from her side.
Well Here are my questions:
Scenario1:
1- What is the risk assesment for any STD etc? ...
I know hand job is not a risk even the hand is contaminated with menstrual blood (though I had no propoer hand job, means no ejaculation)? If genital (vaginal) stroke on one's belly (with no cuts) poses some danger?
I must mention that the bar-girl was very conscious about condome, which shows she must be practicing safe sex. (Although it seems stupid to mention it, as I did not have sex with her)
2- How can I overcome the feelings, which sometimes say I might have been caught some STD from one of the highest risky city? Is this sort of anxiety or some religious guilt, How can I overcome this? I am perfectly fine, but sometimes it destroy my routines!
scenario2:
1- What is the risk assessment?
Last question:
Do I need test?
I need mind satisfaction. I want to take test, however, I get scared and dont take it!
Best Regards!
John