It's certainly possible to cause pain and tissue swelling by repeated poking and prodding. But I don't know whether lymph nodes themselves can be enlarged that way. (You cannot assume that a lump you feel is a lymph node. Self-diagnosis of lymph node enlargement is very unreliable.)
HHH, MD
thanks doc. One last thing. Is it possible to flair up your lymph nodes by poking and pressing?
Your symptoms cannot be due to HIV. In order for you to have HIV, you have to invoke several highly improbable events, all of which have to come up the wrong way: the odds your partner was infected, the odds of transmission if she was, the chance of delayed seroconversion, and the odds of HIV versus something much more common as a cause of the symptoms you describe. That analysis adds up to zero risk of HIV, certainly less than one chance in a billion.
1) There is no medicine that affects HIV testing, with the possible exception of potent chemotherapy for cancer.
2) 100% confident.
3) Almost all garden variety viral infections cause symptoms with some similarity to ARS. Yours do not sound particularly suspicious. And as I said to start, the overall situation essentially proves your symptoms CANNOT be due to HIV.
4) Definitely not.
I hope this helps. Best wishes-- HHH, MD