Hello Doctor,
I'm a gay male, in good health/oral and otherwise, who is not promiscuous but stupidly decided "at age 45 that he would break out of his shell instead of being such a prude " and about 7 weeks ago I had the last of four sexual encounters where I gave and received unprotected oral sex to men of unknown HIV status. On two of those encounters the men surprised me by ejaculating in my mouth (which I spit out quickly). I've seen here that this carries only a very small HIV risk- which relieves me. My main problem, aside from great anxiety and depression over this whole incident, is that since my last sexual encounter I've developed constant gastrointestinal problems. My gastro problems began shortly after I started to worry about my sexual encounters. Since that time my stomach problems have progressed from mild cramps to occassional mild/moderate stomach pains and to very frequently having to go to the toilet shortly after a meal with diarrhea- which has caused me to loose 15 pounds. I went to see a doctor about my anxiety as well as my situation and he prescribed Klonopin .5mg twice a day as well as Librax twice a day for my gastro issues. The meds help somewhat but not completely. Aside from my gastrointestinal issues- which really worry me, I have NOT had any major ARS symptoms like: fatigue, fever, rash, sore throat or flu like symptoms. For the first couple of weeks, however, I did feel some tenderness/tingling of both glands underneath my jaw and I had about a week of mild/mod testicle pain as well. I guess my questions to you are: 1.Do you think my gastrointestinal problems are HIV related or anxiety related, and 2. From all of the questions you get have you ever had someone had gastrointestinal problems like mine for the entire 12 weeks until they got tested? , 3. Can you please provide me with any additional insights- I literally going crazy with anxiety.
Thank you so much,
Terrified in Miami