First drops of semen in eye & Oral sex risks

[Alex_Kay]

Hello everyone,

First of all thank you very much for your time to read and answer my question, you guys and all of the forums are doing a great job.

I am a 26 year old male that encounters TS escorts. I top and bottom but I always use condoms for anal (top and bottom) but never for use condoms for fellatio. Once from one TS escort her first drop of semen went straight to my eye. and sometimes I also feel blood in my mouth when I do fellatio.(my gums are sensitive) I know the stance you guys have when it comes to oral sex but I just need someone to tell me as well for my peace of mind because Im going crazy. I cant focus at work, cant study, cant interact with anyone I go paranoid with symptoms, all the time I check my lymph nodes (I notice that my right side lymph nodes are a bit more detectable and go crazy for nothing probably) I even sometimes convince my self that I'm infected. I know I sound crazy but its the fear that consumes me. Do you guys think I'm really at any risk here?  

[Sara_MHModerator]

Your question has been answered by our members.  Oral sex is not considered a risk nor are most things.  The ONLY risks for HIV transmission are unprotected vaginal or anal sex and sharing of IV needles.  HIV is a fragile virus and is inactivated by air and saliva.  There is really nothing to add to that and we wish you the best.

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[Alex_Kay]

Is it possible for someone to send me the three long term studies of the oral sex situation? My sensitive bleeding gums are scaring me even tbough there was no ejaculation in my mouth. It seems I cant relax my mind about it. Also would it be a good idea to take the ELISA test after 20 days of possible exposure?

[AnxiousNoMore]

The best idea might be to see a therapist to deal with your HIV phobia as you might be able to get instant relief, instead of waiting for tests that prove nothing.

[Alex_Kay]

I was just worried that maybe you know, that the first drop of semen would be thick and kinda protect the virus outside the body. Like it was bugging me

[CurfewX]

No.  No one gets infected that way.

Only sexual risk is having penetrative, unprotected anal or vaginal sex.  Anything else you can think of isn't a risk.

[Alex_Kay]

Thank you very much. :)

[AnxiousNoMore]

You said that you already know what the answer is from reading other posts, namely that you had zero risk.

You might also note from other posts that self-diagnosis has a low probability of being correct. You have no medical training, so it is not surprising that your self-diagnosed symptoms (if they even exist outside of your imagination) are baffling you in your search for an unprofessional self-diagnosis of a disease. Your doctor should be the go to person for diagnosis - if you are sure something is amiss.

Unless you can accept the 40 year old science, you will not find peace. Googling and pretending you are a doctor will not provide any peace of mind and the same with hunting down chat lines in a futile search for some definitive proof that will relax you  - at this point you have all the data and either accept the science or could consider therapy to deal with your HIV phobia.