Dear doctors
I am a 38 year old heterosexual man living in London, UK and am healthy.
I had a full STD screen 2 years ago including HIV , syphilis, Chlamydia, , all of which were negative.
Since then:
1. I have visited a chinese massage parlour several times, received protected oral sex . On occasion I fingered the girls and also licked her genitalia briefly( probably not enough to be called cunnilingus ).
2. I had deep french kissing and completely protected oral and vaginal sex with 8-10 sex workers /escorts. These were highly paid sex workers , not street workers. Most where white caucasian , a mix of British and Eastern European . I made sure that the condom was on and intact all the time apart from one occasion when I received unprotected oral sex . I also performed oral sex ( cunnilingus) 3-4 times.
3. I was in a relationship with a girlfriend for 6 months . She is 42 , of French origin, highly educated professional. She has two kids and had separated from a long term partner/husband 2-3 years ago. According to her own admission, she does not "sleep around". She does not use drugs or alcohol. When I mentioned that I had been tested previously and was negative, she mentioned that although she had not been tested recently, she did not have any known STDs or any risk factors for the same. As we were going to have a long term relationship, we had unprotected sex several times over a period of 3-4 months.( Just mentioned that as it was not really "casual sex")
Now we have terminated our relationship and am just now possibly entering into another relationship. I do not have any symptoms .
Should I get tested now? What do you think of my risks from above? I have resolved not to use any sex workers again from now on .
Many thanks