Dear Doctor:
Id like to say thank you for the service you provide, its a great source of information.
Im a white male in my mid 20s that lives in Ontario, Canada. From my understanding, our statistics are very similar to the United States.
13 days ago, I had unprotected sex with a woman. This involved oral (both given and taken) as well as unprotected sex for about 10minutes, until I put a condom on. Stupid decision, I know.
The woman is in her mid 20s, is white, not a drug user, and has no history of being with bi sexual males. She tells me she got tested recently and everything came back negative... However, Im rely more so on my own tests rather than her telling me shes had one done.
3 days after the exposure, I got a Insti Rapid Test (which took about 1 minute for its result). It came back negative.
Today, 13 days post exposure, I did the same test, and again, it was negative.
My specific questions are below:
1) In your opinion, what are the chances that I could have contracted HIV? I should mention that I am a circumsized male whos generally in good health.
2) I understand it takes upwards of 6 weeks for tests to become positive, however, is my Insti rapid test at 13 days worth anything? By worth, I simply mean does it reduce my risks? Ive read elsewhere that 50% of people test positive by this time -- is this true?
3) The lady at the clinic kept repeating the 3 month rule and how it could take that long for the antibody to develop. I know youve stated many times that 6 weeks is concluive. My question is, does the Insti test require additional time, or is the nurse just suggesting 3 months as per the old guidelines?
4) The only symptom I have at the moment is constant nausea. Ive had it for about 4 days -- roughly between 9-13 days after exposure. I know this is one of the symptoms of anxiety, but am curious to know whether you think it could be an HIV symptom.