First of all let me thank you for running such a wonderful and informative site. On November 12th I had unprotected oral sex with a transvestite, whose HIV status was unknown. I had no cuts or sores on my penis. On November 29th I developed flu-like symptoms. Head congestion, headache, stuffy nose, fatigue, slight fever. I started to develop a cough one week after the encounter. Most of the symptoms lasted about a week. But the cough and post nasal drip have lingered. I never developed a rash, but I developed alopecia areata in my beard area, which I think was present before the encounter, if it wasn't, I noticed it a few days afterwards, which seems too short a time span. The fatigue and malaise have lasted also with some muscle weakness. I had a HIV antibody done at 7 weeks, it was negative. But I still feel like something is not quite right with me. I've had pain in my groin, armpits and neck stiffness. I took another HIV antibody test yesterday. I get the results today. I'm a nervous wreck! I can't sleep. It's consumed me. I know that alopecia areata can be a sign of many diseases. If it was present before the encounter, then it could mean that I have something else going on in my body and not HIV. Is it common for mucus build-up or sinus pressure to linger if you've been infected with HIV? I have suffered with my sinuses before. I had sinus surgery about 6 years ago. I have an appointment with an ENT, hopefully he can find out what's going on. Do you think I've acquired HIV? I'm at the 3 month mark and the results come back today.