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A special and dangerous Masturbation

Dear Dr,
   I'm a chinese male, 26. I really suffered a lot these days. I put a question to the medical support forum, people there make me much stable . But I worried about other sth. after heared from someone , make me nervous again.
  On April 30th , I have a protected oral & protected vagina sex with a CSW;
  On May 3rd, another CSW, I put my penis between her legs, without condom, our postures like doing entercourse, I rubbed penis on her leg and ejaculated, and afraid of my glans touched her vulva and secretions. I remember I feel a little itch on my urethra several seconds, but not very sure; she show me her nagetive report 3 weeks after the action.
  On May 9th, another CSW, I received a hand-job, and during that I do feel itch in my urethra, after that I met a DR and be told got a mycoplasma pneumoniae infection which I think because took a bath in the first CSW’s place, use the towels. THE PROBLEM IS, I touch her vulva during the hand-job and maybe touch my glans or urethral orifice after that.
  More details: I touched her vulva without finger-insert, and don't feel moist. before I touch my penis with my finger again, it about 3mins,I touch her leg and make my finger expose to the air.
  I read a lot your answers and know hand-job is safe even when genital secretions are used for lubrication. BUT WHAT ABOUT one have mycoplasma pneumoniae infection, when I met a doctor for my 8 weeks' test, she said this STD can make a lot "target cell" - CD4 there, so dangerious and I should take 12 week test. Now I have 15-20 rash on my neck since about my 49-52 days, still there now, project out the skin , like a folliculitis.
  What do you think about my situation? The leg-stuff is safe? If have SUCH A STD , then do a hand-job, genital secretions used for lubrication is still safe? 3 mins’ expose enough? 55 days negtive is conclusive? Need further test?
  Thank you very much
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239123 tn?1267647614
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I understood what you said.  Ihave no further comments or advice.  This thread is over.  If you continue, the entire thread will be immediately deleted.
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I  got it !

"The presence of or absence of other infections,  makes no difference."

Sorry for my English , and sorry to bother . No more question !
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  Sorry for my English ,
  The things I discribe means I receive a hand-job when I have a NGU . and maybe contact with secretions .
  I hope there is no error in my previous statement .
  This is my last question . Thank you , doctor .
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  Yes , doctor , I mean NGU in fact . It's a little difficult for me to discribe my situation use these professional terms very correctly .
  Thank you ,  I will forget it . I suffer enough these days , I think it's impossible but be misleaded again and again , that why I want get a help and a release from you .
  Thank you very much ! Best wishes  !  
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239123 tn?1267647614
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
First, even ureaplasma isn't necessarily an STD.  It's normally carried in the genital tracts of up to 50% of all adults.  Some strains may sometimes cause nongonococcal urethritis (NGU), but it has not been associated with HIV risk. Second, you didn't have an exposure that could possibly have transmitted HIV, regardless of other factors that increase risk (HSV-2, being uncircumcised, etc). Definitely you "should forget this thing , forget the test".
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Sorry , I make a great mistake , English is not my motor language , When I said Mycoplasma pneumoniae , it was Ureaplasma urealyticum actually ( STD ) .
  Sorry for the mistake , the answer is still the same ?
  Thank you very much !
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Dear DR,
  thank you very much !
  It's seems I was misleaded , the first time I met the doctor , be asked to do a test without asking the action , I argued I don't have a unprotected penetration cause I have some common sense , and be told the leg-action may touch the secretions .
  And in 7th week I put a quesstion in community forum , and Teak , LIZZIE LOU and Rainlover make me believe that I'm safe , I really apprecaite this . And at last , I decide do a 8 week test in any case and forget it , then I go to the doctor again ( in the hospital near to my home ) , and be told the " target cell " about the STD and asked for 12-week test. So I'm scared again . I think she is wrong but I'm not very sure .
  Thank you doctor , So I should forget this thing , forget the test , and meet another doctor for my  " folliculitis " . RIGHT ?
  Again , thank you , and all the volunteers in community forum . You don't know how scared I am in these days , maybe cause this is the first time for me ( I hope this is also the last time , too) , get a STD and threat of HIV .
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239123 tn?1267647614
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to the forum.  However, you had accurate advice about these issues on the community forum, so my reply is brief.

First, as you were told (and as you said you understood), HIV transmisison does not occur sexually except by penetration of a penis into a partner's vagina, rectum or (rarely) mouth. The exposures you describe were risk-free.  The presence of absence of other infections, including Mycoplasma pneumoniae, makes no difference.

Second, your symptoms are not suspicious for an HIV infection.

Third and most important, your test results show you were not infected.  Even if you had a high risk exposure (you did not) or if your symptoms were typical for HIV (they are not), test results always overrule both symptoms and exposure history.  And 55 days is enough time for conclusive testing, even though official advice often is for testing at 3 months.  Here is another thread that discusses this:  http://www.medhelp.org/post/show/1704700

So you can be certain you do not have HIV.  Unlike the community forum, I will not respond to a string of "what if" questions.  There is no information you can provide that would change my opinion or advice.  But I do hope this information has helped.  Best wishes--

HHH, MD
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