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Any std risks?

last night my friend threw a party,i met a girl,we had a couple too many of drinks and then .
we were kissing for a while then she got naked and at first i kissed her breasts,but then things got a little intense,she asked me to suck on her breasts and nipples  and lick them,i did that for like 5,10 minutes.then i fingered her vagina for a couple of minutes,she was pretty wet,then i put a condom on and we had intercourse,the condom didnot slip or got broken. today i woke up and realised that i had a small open spot/cut where i bit my cheeks while eating before the intercourse and i had small(not bloody) cuts on the finger i used for fingering her vagina,i also had cuticles on the finger i used,which is the skin that is peeled on the left side of my nail,its scientific term is nail grooves or eponychium  i think....
i think my  encounter was perfectly safe except i have two questions in my mind,one i fingered her vagina and the small cuts and cuticle and peeled skin on the left of my nail on the finger i used,second i kissed and sucked on her nipples and the small cheek bite i had inside my cheek,the dentist told me i had gum disease a couple of days ago,my throat was also very sore and a couple of days ago i threw spit after waking up and their was a bit of blood,i asked my doc,he said its because of irritation in my throat...lastly i fingered her vagina,then used the same hands for grabbing her breasts then kissed and sucked on her nipples and breasts,so indirectly their was her vaginal fluid on her breasts and i sucked and kissed on them......
any std risk?im a little tense because one of my friends told me that she works as a stripper  ,take care...
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300980 tn?1194929400
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Welcome to the Forum.  While I'll comment below on the risk of infection if your partner had HIV, it is important for me to point out to you that only a small percentage of strippers, exotic dancers or commercial sex workers have HIV.  

Further, the exposures you describe did not put you at risk for HIV or for other STDs.  HIV is not spread through kissing or oral contact, even when people have gum disease or recent cuts on their tongue or elsewhere within the oral cavity.  Similarly, masturbation, even when a person has irritated cuticles or cuts/sores on their fingers also does not lead to transmission of HIV.  

Your sore throat was not due to HIV or any other STD.  

You have nothing to worry about and do not need testing.  Take care.  EWH
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300980 tn?1194929400
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
I see no need to repeat what I have already said.  You appear to have understoond my response.  EWH
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So sir,the cheek bite cut in my mouth and then the sucking of the breasts didnot put me at any risk even after i used the same hands for grabbing them that i used to finger her vagina,and you mentioned about masturbation but not for fingering her wet vagina...so all in all i have no risk right for hiv or any other std?
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