Dear Dr. Handsfield,
Back in 2011 I took an hsv 1 and 2 IGG blood test. Both of the results came back negative. I took another blood test mid January this year. My hsv 1 came back positive. In the time frame between my 2011 test and 2014 test, I slept with two women (received oral sex from both of them) and received oral sex from a third. The two women I slept with, I used a condom (each was a one time occurrence). So after my last encounter, which was new years eve 2013, I developed a single white bump around my hairline near the base of the penis. The bump appeared on January 31 (one month after). The bump had a red ring around it and was white in the center. From what I remember, it looked like one of those hair nodes around the base of the penis. Anyway, about 5 days later, I woke up for work and noticed the bump had turned completely purple/black. It was never sore to touch. Mid day at work, I went to go to the bathroom and noticed it had opened, the stuff that came out was yellowish/mixed with blood. Within 8 or so hours, the sore was closed. I couldn't get to the Dr. the next day due to a snowstorm, so I got into his office about 3 days after the sore opened/closed. All that was left was a pink patch with a small dot scab in the center. He examined the scab and said it looked like it was on the hairline, I wouldn't worry about it being herpes. He also understood my panic with my recent diagnosis of HSV-1 and never having any symptoms prior. His advice was to put some Neosporin on it and said hsv-1 wouldn't be that low on the penis anyway. So, with all that said, I wanted to get a second opinion. Should I be abstaining from sex, I'm very worried. He was never able to culture it and at this point (about 2 weeks after the initial bump), all I have is a slight pink patch of skin. Should I hold off and wait for it to reappear? I also need to note that now that the bump has healed, there is no hair node there anymore, at least to my undertrained eye.