I was in Malaysia KL for vacation on Dec last year. I went to a so-called health center but in fact they provided commercial sex. I ended up did a condom protected oral-penile and vaginal sex with a young CSW. The vaginal sex is all condom protected but I did not ejaculated in her vaginal. I pulled out my penis with the condom is still on and did not break. She helped me to remove the condom but immediately masturbated me with the same hand until I ejaculated. My concern is if her hand got some of her vaginal fluid from the condom and then touched my penis head. Will this put me in risk if she is HIV positive? Doctors, can you answer my questions below:
1) How long will HIV virus survives outside human?
I spoke to my friend who is a nurse. She tole me not to worry too much as vaginal fluid is not as infectious as people thought. She said it was one of the fluids deep inside the vaginal is infectious. That's why female-to-male transmission is very difficult and must be unprotected penetration.
2) Is she correct?
3) However, even if she is right, there could be some those fluid left at the tip of the condom as I did penetrated. She might transferred those fluid to me by her hand removed the condom and then rubbed my penis head. Am I in risk?
4) After all, should I be concerned and should I get tested?
Doctors, can you explain a little more rather than just a simple yes/no answer?