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sex with a TS...am i at risk?
Dear Doctor,
Yesterday I had sex with a transex. Before I describe what happened, I had masturbated twice during the day and I managed to hurt a little bit the skin of my penis with open sore due the friction of my hand. At night I wnet to see a TS and the following happened.
She first put the condom on me and made a blowjob. After 2 minutes I penetrate her in 2 different positions for I would say 7 minutes.
After I put a condon on her and I made a blowjob while I started masturbating myself with the condom I used to penetrate her. This probably lasted 5 minutes until I came.
She took out my condon and after 2 minutes of conversation I went to the toilet to wash my dick that had some cum mixed with gel (that was used inside de condom). I totally forgot to wash my hands before touching my penis that had this minor sores.could I have contracted HIV by masturbating with the condom that was in her *** and touching afterwards my penis given the elapsed time of the actions.
I am basically affraid that some virus could have come out of her *** on the condom and it got in touch with my hand while I masturbated and then got in my blood via my penis open sore when I went to wash it.
It is now 24 hours and I am about to take a plane and I need your advise if I should do anything...
Thx a lot
Yesterday I had sex with a transex. Before I describe what happened, I had masturbated twice during the day and I managed to hurt a little bit the skin of my penis with open sore due the friction of my hand. At night I wnet to see a TS and the following happened.
She first put the condom on me and made a blowjob. After 2 minutes I penetrate her in 2 different positions for I would say 7 minutes.
After I put a condon on her and I made a blowjob while I started masturbating myself with the condom I used to penetrate her. This probably lasted 5 minutes until I came.
She took out my condon and after 2 minutes of conversation I went to the toilet to wash my dick that had some cum mixed with gel (that was used inside de condom). I totally forgot to wash my hands before touching my penis that had this minor sores.could I have contracted HIV by masturbating with the condom that was in her *** and touching afterwards my penis given the elapsed time of the actions.
I am basically affraid that some virus could have come out of her *** on the condom and it got in touch with my hand while I masturbated and then got in my blood via my penis open sore when I went to wash it.
It is now 24 hours and I am about to take a plane and I need your advise if I should do anything...
Thx a lot
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
I'm glad to hear you're in treatment. You should discuss these behaviors and the resulting anxieties with your therapist. In the meantime, you can safely continue unprotected sex with your wife, with no fear of infecting her. You can't give her an infection you don't have.
That will be all for this thread.
That will be all for this thread.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome back to the forum. However, these questions are very similar to those you asked 2 months ago. (Maybe you even had the same transsexual partner this time?) The answers are the same. Please re-read that thread.
HIV is harder to transmit than you fear and cannot be transmitted through a condom or from the sort of indirect contact of skin with secretions that you describe. That you might have had a little scrape on your penis makes no difference. Just remember this about safe sex for HIV: if a bare penis (no condom) isn't placed inside another person's vagina or rectum, there is no risk. You don't need testing.
The tone of your question suggests your HIV related anxieties continue as before. Counseling may be in order. In the meantime, I suggest you stop having sexual experiences that cause so much anxiety. At a minimum, you could ask your partner(s) whether they have HIV. Most people don't lie when asked directly.
There won't be any follow-up discussion this time; there is no information you can provide that could possibly change my opinion or advice. Also please note that MedHelp permits a maximum of 2 questions every 6 months on each professionally moderated forum; no more permitted here before next May.
Really, mellow out. There is no risk here.
Regards-- HHH, MD
HIV is harder to transmit than you fear and cannot be transmitted through a condom or from the sort of indirect contact of skin with secretions that you describe. That you might have had a little scrape on your penis makes no difference. Just remember this about safe sex for HIV: if a bare penis (no condom) isn't placed inside another person's vagina or rectum, there is no risk. You don't need testing.
The tone of your question suggests your HIV related anxieties continue as before. Counseling may be in order. In the meantime, I suggest you stop having sexual experiences that cause so much anxiety. At a minimum, you could ask your partner(s) whether they have HIV. Most people don't lie when asked directly.
There won't be any follow-up discussion this time; there is no information you can provide that could possibly change my opinion or advice. Also please note that MedHelp permits a maximum of 2 questions every 6 months on each professionally moderated forum; no more permitted here before next May.
Really, mellow out. There is no risk here.
Regards-- HHH, MD
Dear Doctor, firts apologies for coming back, but i have a final question. Due the level of anxiety i have been through, my psichiatry recommended a teste called HIV PCR Viral Load after 2 weeks of the event to get me peace of mind. The result came negative. I have been reading on the internet several posts and i couldn't come out with an assurance if 2 weeks is enough to rule out the infection or i should repeat the test. I know you said i didnt need testing, but please compreend that my problem is psichological and i need any support now to take this out of my mind. As you suggested i stopped those sex relationships. Thanks Doctor HH.
Thank you so much!!! I was affraid of kissing my daughter...it makes me feel much better to hear from you that i am fine. And trust me, i wrote exactly what happened. Thank you ver much!!!!
Thank you Doctor,i took your advise and i am seeing a psiachiastry. I am under medicine to treat anxiety. I managed to stay away from this sex relationships since the last time i wrote. This was a different partner but i guess it doesnt change your answer. I just learned again how bad i feel after the sex and that the best solution is to stop with this like you said.
I just feel afraid i can pass anything to my wife... But i got you this time that i didnt run any risks and i promisse not to come back. Best
I just feel afraid i can pass anything to my wife... But i got you this time that i didnt run any risks and i promisse not to come back. Best
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