Dear Doctor, thanks in advance for your help. Last week i had an encounter with a transexual csw which left we extremely worried. It is a somewhat complicated sequence of events, so i ask for your patience.
To start off, i had performed protected oral sex on the csw. further in the encounter. After this was done, she had taken off the condom and left it aside for about 5 to 10 minutes. following this, she proceeded to use the same condom, which she had taken off earlier and undoubtedly made contact with her penis, and covered her fingers and inserted her fingers into my anus.
This contact went on for a reasonable period of time. from the mechanics of it, it is likely that the side of the condom which made contact inside my anus also made contact with her penis. she did not ejaculate during the earlier oral sex, but i do not know if there were any pre-ejaculation fluids.
my question is, is there a high risk of transmission in this case, should she be hiv positive? the condom had been left in the open air for a few minutes, but could still have semenal fluids on it. I am normally very cautious but have been careless in this process. I will be getting tested anyway, but It is severely distressing and i really hope you can help me. many thanks