Three mos. ago, I witnessed the labor and delivery of my first grandson. I was very disturbed with the way her dr. handled EVERYTHING. He allowed her to have her labor induced for no reason. (I was simply told that things have changed since I had my children) I believe that this caused her very long , hard, and stressful labor and delivery. She was given many epidurals. The baby was in the birth canal for over 2 hours. (I believe it was 3) The dr. struggled to pull the babys head out and ended up actually poking his finger through the skin on the baby's head. I was horrified. But nobody else seemed concerned. And by the time he came out , my worry was the fact that it took so long for the baby to breathe or react to the nurses who by then were thumping and poking at him. Finally , it looked as though everything was going to be alright. He had a sore on his head that turned to a scab and took about 1 month to heal. From the beginning of his birth, I have agonized over several things. His still mishapen head that doesnt appear to be shaping up anytime soon. His leg shakes almost constantly , whether he is tired or not. He sleeps on his back , so he DOES get alot of "tummy time". But cannot seem to lift his head even the slightest bit. He does coo a little. I look at him and try to see his eyes adjusting .But I don't see what I think that I should see. I don't know what to do. T.A.D.