My husband had an MI 5 days ago. He needs a quintuple bypass; his cardiologist says do it 2 weeks after the heart attack(MI), and the surgeon says wait 3-4 weeks aftet the heart attack(MI). What should we do? 45% of his heart was damaged in the attck, his cholesterol is 313, and his bp is averaging 130/95. His main middle artery is blocked 90%, one of the other main arteries is 100% blocked, the third main artery is blocked 50%, and the subsequent two arteries stemming from the third main artery are blocked 99% and 70% repectively. Plus, they are sending him home today so he's going to be home while waiting for the surgery which scares the heck out of me. What should we do?