Will your Thanksgiving be the same this year?

[konyha]

I don't mean will the "giving thanks" part be different -
I have been thanking my lucky stars a lot lately and realize more and more how grateful I am to have the love and support I need - along with the ability to genuinely return it.

Our social life has gradually declined and my husband has picked up a lot of my share of the errands without complaint
The celebration of the holiday itself varies from year to year at our house-
Sometimes bigger than others depending on the kids and grandkids.

I cannot believe I am even going to write this in the public domain, but
This is the first time I can recall ever viewing the event - as well, kind of a hassle.

I decided since it is only one day - whatever we decide I am going to buck up and try to participate.
I don't feel that way now, but this is my goal.

Am I the Lone Ranger here?

[jools57]

Last year this time I too was txing and wasn't going to do any of it. Actually spent Thanksgiving in bed sick, and my kids went to a freinds house. I was going to pass on Christmas too, but a week before got feeling like I needed to put up a tree, and snap out of my bah humbug. Glad I did, but I totally understand where you're at. Just do what you can do.
Best wishes!

[R Glass]

I was going through tx last Holiday Season. I chose not to participate. All of my family met at my In-Laws for both Holidays while I stayed home in bed. Sure it was depressing but the depression was better than the stress and anxiety of trying to participate. My family understood. With you being a mother, I am sure you feel more obligated. This is just food for thought. Only you know what will be the right choice for you.

[konyha]

Who-ha: I'm willing to be sporting about Thanksgiving  

Christmas?!  
As in Christmas Tree and Christmas Shopping?

Even shopping on line seems cumbersome.
   Now is the time most of the free shipping and good discounts are offered
   That can make a big difference with some items due to the sales tax in my state
Don't get me started....

[CMcH]

I understand completely! I have always loved holidays and this year I am hesitant to go out and do much of anything. I have no desire to shop for XMAS. Part of it is the economy  but it is also the lights and crowds now. 9 out of 10 times I regret going out esp. in PM and wish I was home in bed.