uh oh....

[tattoomommy03]

I took a pregnancy test due to.feeling not normal... it was positive... both of them where positive... i dont know what to do right now. Im happy and scared and hoping this is a dream. I had a c section.. my body isnt ready for this.. not yet.. will i loose the pregnancy due to my c section?

[katngary143]

Well keep us updated on everything sending gpod vibes your way

[tattoomommy03]

Only time will tell right now. I hope i will be ok..

[katngary143]

Omg awww emma congrats thats amazing !! Is it safe for you to be preggers so soon ?

[tomorrow264]

That's awesome that he took it so well. I think things always have a way of working out. I hope for you too that its a girl :)

[tattoomommy03]

Lol it better be a girl thos time.lol. im way out numbered here!. The more i sit and.think the more im.becoming ok with the pregnancy. Scared out of my mind. But ok.i just sat down with the father and i told.him there was a possibility and he started to cry.. a good cry. He was excited.. he started talking to my belly.... weird.. lol

[katngary143]

Emma is one fertile murtle ; D well im praying its one baby not two again but things happen for a reason and babies want to come when they want to I hooe things go well with telling the father maybe this is a good thing :D and I also hope its a gurl..

[Mizzztaylor]

That's great you have an appointment so soon so you can address your concerns with your dr. I don't mean to make light of your concerns so I hope you don't take it that way at all. I know there are some risks just having had a c section but I'm a firm believer in some things are just meant to be and of you were using protection and still got pregnant then I'm inclined to believe that someone wants you to have this baby and I really believe you'll be ok.

[tattoomommy03]

Mizz. I never thoight of it that way. I have a dr appointment on tuesday.

[thirdtimemum]

Oh wow, that is really soon! But you just do what you feel is best...i hope things turn out really well with the father, so you don't have to go through this alone. You must be really fertile lol. I'm kinda scared now, as i'm not using anything at the moment, but kinda figured with me breastfeeding, my age (37) and hubby not being extremely fertile, my chances would be next to nil. But, i guess you just never know. As for the c section problem, i think they will just keep a really close eye on you.

[Mizzztaylor]

Well, I'm happy for you. I'm not sure if that's what you want to hear or not but I am. I can understand why you'd be scared of being let down again but a man who is willing to support a woman who is carrying another man's twins and is also willing to help out with the twins is going to be the kind of man who supports her when she's pregnant with his baby. I kind o just have a feeling it's all going to work out for you.

[tomorrow264]

Barbie I also got mine the day I was discharged.

[Flickan]

Wow. I can understand the position...I fear  the rupture as well if I get pregnant too soon. I agree, while I have my views on abortion, you have to do what is right for you.  We will be here with whatever you decide.  It's a lot to take in so soon after the twins. As for the nun part...nah...that's no fun! LOL

[tattoomommy03]

I wish i did that lol

[BarbieAnn85]

I'm having them give me my first dose of depo provera tomorrow morning before they send Brantley and I home. I'm not taking any chances lol

[tattoomommy03]

Thank you. Its nice to know i can come one here amd have ypu ladies talk me thru some stuff. With out judgment. And always supportive advise is given.

[tomorrow264]

Ultimately you need to do what's right for you  and nobody but you is gonna know what that is but we're always here to listen.

[tattoomommy03]

I know he will take it well. Im.the one scared it wont go well being so soon. Were dating. Not coupled out yet due to my divorce and not ready to be labled.. i will.continue with the pregnancy. Abortions scare me and dont fully believe in it. Touchy subject i know. I will go in next week and get the drs confermation that i am pregnant and.go.from there...

[tomorrow264]

I personally could never have an abortion so I would be continuing with the pregnancy. I would get in to see my OB asap. Are you and the father dating, a couple, or done? That would determine for me how soon I tell him but I would probably wait until I had doctor confirmation unless you think he's going to take it well then I'd tell him sooner.

[tattoomommy03]

Thats what im affraid of. I dont want to rupture... its so soon. I just got done being pregnant.. we used protection and i still got pregnant.. im scared to tell the father because i dont want a repeat of what just happened. Im affraid to have an abortion.. so thats not an option. -Sigh- sex is bad!!! Bad!bad! Bad!! Think im going to be a nun when this is said and done! Now i need to gobsee my dr and get examined to see how far along. And see and make sure there is only 1 in there... i dont wanna do the twin thing again. Dont think my tummy can handle it again.. what would you all do in this situation?

[tomorrow264]

The concern about getting pregnant so soon after a c-section is that your uterus is more likely to rupture. As far as I know it doesn't affect you keeping the pregnancy unless your uterus ruptures. Odds are your doctor would do extra ultrasounds to keep eye on your incision and it would definitely mean another c-section.

As far as getting pregnant while breastfeeding it is very common. Breastfeeding only works as a form of birth control if you are breastfeeding every 3-4 hours including during the night and that's still only like 80% effective I believe.

[tattoomommy03]

How is this possible tho? Im breastfeeding but not exclusivly anymore. Im.a total wreck