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Had my baby boy 3 weeks ago, and want one mor baby

Hi everyone so 3 weeks ago on Jan 4th I had my little guy I was induce on the 3rd due to high blood pressure. I was induced at 8pm and had him at 1:43. I love him and it's been hard with sleeping, DH and I haven't done this in almost 5 years. My daughter will be 5 in March. My older two my son n daughter are 16 months apart. But this time around is much harder. Since my oldest is in school, I get no sleep, it has been getting better though.

So I really do want one more child, I really want my daughter to have a sister, even though our whole fam is filled with girls and my sisters daughter and her are 5 months apart. I just feel like I am not done yet.
I didn't want anymor before but now I do.dh just turned 38 and I'll be 27 in August. He says he is done, so I'm not sure what to think.
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4484425 tn?1384228334
Oh no poor little guy. Them having to do a spinal tap would of scared the crap out of me.
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Thank you! My son doing good, I took him to er two days ago he wasn't drinking n crying. Turns out he had a small urine infection plus a virus, they stuck him trying to get if iv for 2 hours and spinal tap. It was the most scariest thing I've ever went thru. I'm glad he okay we were discharge yesterday morning.
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4545793 tn?1394592544
Welcome to the fambam I want a girl I have a son that will be 8 months next week ..all I can say is that babies will come when they want to fingers crossed  and sending good vibes
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4268628 tn?1375041176
Congrats!!!! I have no advice for ya....but I hope you both make a plan that works for both of you. One of the best advice I have been given about being married is- Remember that that kids will leave you someday. You'll still have your husband..so make sure that relationship comes first.
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4484425 tn?1384228334
Congrats on your little one! I have two older boys, 13 and 10, and then my daughter who just turned 8 months. I really want to have another one but the hubby too says we're done but we'll see. I can be pretty persuasive :)
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4437866 tn?1388119624
Welcome back and CONGRATS!!! dont worry you'll find your groove soon. And sleep will eventually come.
You never know. He may change his mind. Be patient with him.
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