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24 still not sure about having sex
Hi everyone:
The things go like this, Im 23 (almost 24) year old. My girlfriend is 20 years old. Ive had sex with her sometimes, but not that many times. The thing is the following, even thou ive had "safe sex" (using condom) every single time, i still get really anxios about her becoming pregnant. She is thinking about also using the pill, but even with that im still not sure if i can handle taking that big risk. Im thinking im not ready for sex, cause i still have a lot of things planned on doing, and the possibility of her getting pregnant is maybe to much of a risk for me. Ive talked to her about it, but she gets mad and says: Why, if two people love each other, can do something like sex? and also, you cant go through life worring about all... and stuff like that, but i know that the chance of getting pregnant is a mistake that will be carried for life. Now im on vacations at last, and i wont see her until a week from now, we had sex about a week ago or so (around day 10 of her period), using condoms (two condoms were used, and the facvt that after changing to the second one (aroudn 30 to 45 minutes later and after wiping the remaining off the semen with toilet paper) some semen could have gone into the second one scares me a lot) and ive been worrying about the posibility of her being pregnant, and now, i have to wait until around the twenty for her period to come again, What should i do? Im worring, what is the step i should take next? Help is greatly appreciated!!
The things go like this, Im 23 (almost 24) year old. My girlfriend is 20 years old. Ive had sex with her sometimes, but not that many times. The thing is the following, even thou ive had "safe sex" (using condom) every single time, i still get really anxios about her becoming pregnant. She is thinking about also using the pill, but even with that im still not sure if i can handle taking that big risk. Im thinking im not ready for sex, cause i still have a lot of things planned on doing, and the possibility of her getting pregnant is maybe to much of a risk for me. Ive talked to her about it, but she gets mad and says: Why, if two people love each other, can do something like sex? and also, you cant go through life worring about all... and stuff like that, but i know that the chance of getting pregnant is a mistake that will be carried for life. Now im on vacations at last, and i wont see her until a week from now, we had sex about a week ago or so (around day 10 of her period), using condoms (two condoms were used, and the facvt that after changing to the second one (aroudn 30 to 45 minutes later and after wiping the remaining off the semen with toilet paper) some semen could have gone into the second one scares me a lot) and ive been worrying about the posibility of her being pregnant, and now, i have to wait until around the twenty for her period to come again, What should i do? Im worring, what is the step i should take next? Help is greatly appreciated!!
Thanx, got that way to later... ive learn already... hey, learning costs a lot sometimes, i guess
i think you are too much obsessed and thinking only about yourself...if u use condoms there is no way she can get pregnant,,maybe u dont understand it but u r destroying a bit your relationship...maybe in the future u will regret of being ambitious like you are doing now...ambition is not a bad thing,everyone is ambitious,but there are some limits ,if we overgo them,than we hurt ourselves first,like you that have become so obsessed ,and other people who have to do with us as well,like your gf in this moment,u r arguing with her about this thing and you dont think that she can feel bad about this....and one last thing...if condoms wouldn`t exist ,let me tell you one thing for sure....world population would be still multiplying!!.........
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