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Average time before ejaculation ?

What i would like to know is how long intercourse lasts for on average before ejaculation. All these rubbish comments from people lasting all night i just dismiss, what i am looking for is comments by people on the real world.

I want to know this so i can determine if i ejaculate prematurely. Please can you help ?
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We just finished having sex and clocked in @ 22 min 13 sec. This is an average time for my partner and I. Cumming before or at the beginning of penetration is generally considered "premature." A trick that has actually worked is to think about something else, like Math. But more important than when you come is that you are both satisfied. So if you come too quick, be considerate and get her off some other way. It can be hard to initiate, but talk with you partner about what they like.
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im 18 n i think i *** to fast to satisfy any one as people have said ur 1st time is always fast but even now i dont last long what shall i do
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It depends on whether or not I'm using a condom(without feels a lot better so I end up cumming faster), and the position(when I hit it from behind I *** a lot faster).  We can go anywhere from 15min to 2 hours or so.  She hates when I don't *** so she tries to keep going but most times after 30-40 min she can't really stay wet without ky, so sometimes it kills the mood and I have to stop without finishing.

I also last longer when I have sex/ masturbate(sometimes the waits too long) often I'll last a lot longer.  If thats the case I also end up keeping my boner even after I ***.  =( Too bad it doesn't work when I'm not oversexed  
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Does masturbating at least 3/5 times a week help proplong ejaculation or take the opposite effect
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It all depends on the mood. Sometimes 5 minutes to sometimes half hour (not considering the foreplay time. Add at least 10-15 minutes of foreplay which is a MUST for your special one). Again, I have found that changing the positions and trying something new and different helps elongate the intercourse duration. However, for me love is more important than sex. So, go slow, show care and love. If you like WILD sex, your partner better be the same way. COMMUNICATION is the key here! Good luck!
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Well . . . Ummm am 22 . . I am a virgin still . But my problem is , when i masturbate , the ejaculation takes place as soon as in 2-3 mins . Wil it differ if i have sex with a woman or it wil get even worse when i do so ? I don't want to disappoint my future wife. If it really bothers women, i could very well stay away from marriage. So . . Is it a premature ejaculation ?
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