MEN...i also need an honest answer!

[kchick]

gosh, i already feel a little embarassed about posting this question, but i really would like an honest answer! Trying to keep this short,I guess as surprising as it is I have been somewhat naive to the fact that men think large labia minora are disgusting? My husband loves mine (ugh, sorry i am just trying to explain my insecurity)even though i've always felt like I was not sexy "down there". I've asked him about mine before and of COURSE I always get the "i love it" (because he knows if he said anything else he'd never get it! so i will never get a TRUE honest answer) Anyways, the other day a couple of my co workers (one female and one male, sadly regarding a patient)made the remark about a "roast beef *****", and how much would you do "that" for etc (sick, i know)... i had never heard that term but right away I was pretty sure I knew what they were talking about. Just a bit ago I looked up the term online and my suspicions were correct. I truely want to know the general feeling on this. Is it not sexy to have large labia minora? Does having large labia minora mean you have a "loose *****", and are not the "ideal tight..." Sorry to be so descript. Is having larger labia minora mean that your tendency to smell bad down there is greater? Again, I would appreciate honest answers, I am not looking to hear "if your husband enjoys it that is all that matters". I just want to know!!! Thanks to everyone who replies to this.

[RedRosePetals]

It made me cry when it said online that men call it an elephant seal.

[RedRosePetals]

I still feel consious of mine, i have been feeling ill about it for the last four weeks straight. I had a nurse check on it and she wouldn't look so it made me very sad and hurt. Also i have tried to cut the gland or tape it together. I thought it was due to masturbation or penetration into the vagina. Honestly, i need help, it's not because it is just your private parts it is your self image and i am an artsy type with asperger and we tend to be mad.  

[RedRosePetals]

Why is the slang term~name refered as Roast Beef for a large {wrinkly} labia minora and for a {smooth} majora is called rose petal. Though, i thought many men mock us woman with this. It comfirms on the Urban Dictonary.  Woman with large labia's get mocked just like men with other men who have a small penis. Why is this? I am only 17 and it looks like i have had intercourse when i am still a virgin. I am so conscious!.

[wildheart333]

Hi there, Glad you're still checking for messages.. yes the programme was on tv here in the uk but they have a website set up named after the programme "Embarrassing Bodies".. it was quite an eye opener to see all the weird and wonderful variations of both mens and womens intimate parts and actually made me feel ok about accepting what nature handed out, after all if someone's finds us attractive enough to want to sleep with us then i'm sure they're not going to be put off by the minor (or major) details!! They showed the woman after she'd had her labia reduced,, at some ridiculous price I'm sure and yeah she looked all neat and trimmed but i don't think it's the way to go..she'll probably just find some other imperfection to blame next and then where does it end??
And hey just check out what most of these guys are saying..I'd say it was all very positive!! Be happy and trust that all is just as it should be! x

[rankett]

> I have always wondered what guys think about big juicy labia...

What else to think, you just said it: juicy! This is oral paradise for men enjoying to offer oral pleasure to a woman.

[prettypolly]

what programme do you mean? was it in the UK?