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gosh, i already feel a little embarassed about posting this question, but i really would like an honest answer! Trying to keep this short,I guess as surprising as it is I have been somewhat naive to the fact that men think large labia minora are disgusting? My husband loves mine (ugh, sorry i am just trying to explain my insecurity)even though i've always felt like I was not sexy "down there". I've asked him about mine before and of COURSE I always get the "i love it" (because he knows if he said anything else he'd never get it! so i will never get a TRUE honest answer) Anyways, the other day a couple of my co workers (one female and one male, sadly regarding a patient)made the remark about a "roast beef *****", and how much would you do "that" for etc (sick, i know)... i had never heard that term but right away I was pretty sure I knew what they were talking about. Just a bit ago I looked up the term online and my suspicions were correct. I truely want to know the general feeling on this. Is it not sexy to have large labia minora? Does having large labia minora mean you have a "loose *****", and are not the "ideal tight..." Sorry to be so descript. Is having larger labia minora mean that your tendency to smell bad down there is greater? Again, I would appreciate honest answers, I am not looking to hear "if your husband enjoys it that is all that matters". I just want to know!!! Thanks to everyone who replies to this.
I love this forum, men worrying that their penis is to small and looking for a way to make it bigger, for goodness sakes we have what we have and should all be happy.
I guess by todays standard I havent made love to many women, just 9, each and every one had a different looking vagina, I never gave it a second thought as to if it was pretty or not so pretty, it was the person I was with that counted, I think some folks tend to spend to much time worrying about their genitals, time that would be better spent doing something constructive.
None of us is perfect some have a large libia others a 2 inch long foreskin, either way it is the persons heart that should be loved and frankly I would not care one iota what a womans vagina looked like, I actualy think a large libia would be a turn on.
My exWife had a massive Varicose Vein running along the edge of her vagina, she worried about it and I could not care less, I didnt find it off putting in any way, they eventualy removed it when they gave her a hystorecomy.
My advice is dont make something out of nothing, life is to short, your husband does love you, just the way you are, I love my wife to pieces but she has had 5 kids and her vagina has stretched, to make matters worse she has a prolapsed bladder, it does not stop me making love to this wonderful person, she is my soul mate and I love her for herself not what her genitals are like.
I guess by todays standard I havent made love to many women, just 9, each and every one had a different looking vagina, I never gave it a second thought as to if it was pretty or not so pretty, it was the person I was with that counted, I think some folks tend to spend to much time worrying about their genitals, time that would be better spent doing something constructive.
None of us is perfect some have a large libia others a 2 inch long foreskin, either way it is the persons heart that should be loved and frankly I would not care one iota what a womans vagina looked like, I actualy think a large libia would be a turn on.
My exWife had a massive Varicose Vein running along the edge of her vagina, she worried about it and I could not care less, I didnt find it off putting in any way, they eventualy removed it when they gave her a hystorecomy.
My advice is dont make something out of nothing, life is to short, your husband does love you, just the way you are, I love my wife to pieces but she has had 5 kids and her vagina has stretched, to make matters worse she has a prolapsed bladder, it does not stop me making love to this wonderful person, she is my soul mate and I love her for herself not what her genitals are like.
I am not so young anymore, but I have always enjoyed seeing and sucking large lips, as well as normal boobs that jiggle and sway, not those hard stuffed ones. Spent years at nudist clubs, and you get jaded after seeing a few thousand naked females. But a woman who goes by with bouncing boobs labia protruding ,It is so erotic, like she is more exposed than other women. So hot! I have to fight off erection. Of course shaved accents them and that is great. Show us real men the goodies ladies, not some tight little slit .Just love to lick, suck and nibble large inner labias, no matter what shade of color. Just as ladies enjoy viewing erections, instead of flacids. Keep the meat.
I absolutely love large, pouty pu$$y lips! There is nothing hotter than seeing a woman who possesses large labia bending over to display them for you. (Actually, I don't really care how they are displayed, they are just hot!) Large lips give you more to do when you are orally pleasing a woman. They are great to suck on and carress with your tongue.
HDChick - Nearly every one one of us, male or female, have different colors or different shades of skin about our play-time parts. Your lips are probably darker than "normal" due to a larger amount of blood vessles/capillaries. That's a good thing... Know why? INCREASED AROUSAL! Don't be shy about giving it up when you need it. If you run into a guy that doesn't appreciate your pu$$y, keep looking, because there are plenty of us men out there who would love to spend some time with it!
HDChick - Nearly every one one of us, male or female, have different colors or different shades of skin about our play-time parts. Your lips are probably darker than "normal" due to a larger amount of blood vessles/capillaries. That's a good thing... Know why? INCREASED AROUSAL! Don't be shy about giving it up when you need it. If you run into a guy that doesn't appreciate your pu$$y, keep looking, because there are plenty of us men out there who would love to spend some time with it!
Different men have different tastes. Despite what bucko (and maybe others) have said, I DEFINITELY prefer larger labia! Nice big ones that protrude seductively and invitingly. Ones you can flap around with your tongue or grab hold of with your lips and pull on. Oh yes!
Some men prefer big ****, some small. Some prefer natural ****, others are happy with enhanced ones. Big butts, small butts, thin as a rake or got some flesh on her, there are as many tastes as there are girls to meet them! Same with labia - but put me on the big ones list!
Some men prefer big ****, some small. Some prefer natural ****, others are happy with enhanced ones. Big butts, small butts, thin as a rake or got some flesh on her, there are as many tastes as there are girls to meet them! Same with labia - but put me on the big ones list!
My wife has large inner labia and although we've been married 6 years now, I can still remember the first time I saw them. They were an instant turn on and definitely boosted my overall attraction to her. She has disclosed her insecurities about them to me and also recalled how her classmates teased her in the shower. Personally, I much rather seeing large labia than just a plain slit. That brings us to another point, women who only have a plain slit and are envious of the size of other womens' labia.
Seriously. Get over it. I say this as a woman who has exactly the same "dark/discolored, thick, and kind-of flappy" situation - just measured them at 4mm long. I mooned a camera at the age of 14 and was nick-named droopy by the two friends who saw it. Yes, some men prefer small girl-like labia, but I doubt your husband is one of them. I now see my situation as an asset because they add to friction during sex making it tighter for my partner when they slip in, and the swelling in my underwear seen during fore-play drives him nuts. As for if it smells, well keep it clean and some wipes around if you are concerned about that - I doubt it is more or less than others.
I feel like the real issue is that YOU don't find them attractive and are looking for someone to confirm a conclusion upon which you have already arrived. Yes, they are different, but embrace your difference. I used to have issues and wanted surgery because some clothes were uncomfortable to wear, but - now - having had a fair amount of partners go wild for that part of my body and a current partner who sees it as a visible indicator of my sexuality (guys are visual so to see my sex parts is a turn-on for him) - I wouldn't trade it for the world. Embrace it, play with it for him to see and I promise you in no time you will love the thing that makes you different too.
I feel like the real issue is that YOU don't find them attractive and are looking for someone to confirm a conclusion upon which you have already arrived. Yes, they are different, but embrace your difference. I used to have issues and wanted surgery because some clothes were uncomfortable to wear, but - now - having had a fair amount of partners go wild for that part of my body and a current partner who sees it as a visible indicator of my sexuality (guys are visual so to see my sex parts is a turn-on for him) - I wouldn't trade it for the world. Embrace it, play with it for him to see and I promise you in no time you will love the thing that makes you different too.
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