Aa
MedHelp.org will cease operations on May 31, 2024. It has been our pleasure to join you on your health journey for the past 30 years. For more info, click here.
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

Mental problems with maintaining erection

I am a senior in high school and I have been having problems maintaining erections. I don't have a problem becoming erect, but when I am about to have sex, I lose it completely. I have been with three different girls and each time when I'm putting on the condom I lose my erection. I can't get it back and become frustrated, and I am really confused why this happens to me. I don't think that there is something physically wrong with me, it's just in my head but I could really use some help!
2 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
when you get naked hump the air a little shake your penis to help hold erections
Helpful - 0
338908 tn?1195536411
Take it easier.  Get naked with them WITHOUT any intention of having sex.  Tell her you're NOT going to have sex and just give her a naked massage instead.  If sex happens, let it, but don't make intercourse the issue.

You're setting yourself up for failure if that's what you're looking to do.  Take away the motivation for sex and make it about touch instead.  

I know, from a male perspective, it seems pretty wimpy, and "*******" is great, but the psychological aspect is important, too, and you need to handle that, too.

-Bill
Helpful - 0

You are reading content posted in the Men's Health Community

Top Men's Health Answerers
1622896 tn?1562364967
London, United Kingdom
139792 tn?1498585650
Indore, India
Avatar universal
Southwest , MI
Learn About Top Answerers
Popular Resources
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
Discharge often isn't normal, and could mean an infection or an STD.
Chlamydia, an STI, often has no symptoms, but must be treated.
Bumps in the genital area might be STDs, but are usually not serious.
Get the facts about this disease that affects more than 240,000 men each year.