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NO erection in the morning

Hi to all,

Iam 22 yrs old male....I have been masturbating from past 8 yrs now.....
I don get hard erection in the morning once i wake up...which i was getting before...
I was masturbating 4-5 times a week(and even 2-3 times a day) ..now i have controlled and reduced it to 2-3 times a week.......
During some  masturbation,I don feel that i have reached a good Erection...and my penis shrinks immediately say after some 30 secs....I masturbate by watching PORN sites....
I also get full erection and i do enjoy a lot if i get sexually aroused...by watching porn sites...!!!!!!!
this happens only sometimes.....but not always....!!!!!! :(
In both the cases I get the orgasm normally and my semen is also normal(white sticky)

I don get erection in the morning ...only during some days(when i wake up) my penis gets erected....
I will be marrying soon in another 2 months....
I just wanted to know whether I am  healthy or not ????
Am I normal....????How many times can I masturbate...????
Will I be able to lead a healthy sex life with my fiancee...??

Plz help mee...am very much worried..??? :(
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dude masturbate all you want. talk to you fiancee about it, shell be okay with it. now that your not in your teens your not raging hormonaly, welcome to the ever so far and wide morning wood gang
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The absence of morning erection indicates that you have erection problems. When my husband had them he took Extagen, which helped him a lot.
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Thanx mates for ur replies....!!!!
I do get erection in the morning.....as i told u previously.....only difference is tat I don get 'em daily.....
and moreover When i masturbate...I am not able to hold my erection for even a minute...
If i hold d penis in my  hand and rub it...am able to stay erected till d hands are out...

I don't smoke, i drink only beer.......and not addicted to any kinda drugs.....Am still a VIRGIN...NEver even had a GF in my entire lifetime.....nor dated anyone..!! :(
The only guilt that i have in my mind is about my masturbation for 8 yrs........

Will it produce any negative effects such as erectile dysfunction....???
Will I be able to make it up with an GAL......???
Should i completely abandon masturbating...????
Is there any physical exercises to improve the erection...????
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not getting them everyday is common, once you hit your early twenties you will start to lose 1-2%of your testosterone every year.  thats why when youre fifteen and a girl looks at you you get a boner. as to not being able to keep it up, try going to a novelty store and getting a "**** ring" which will help the blood vessels dilated. beer will cause you to lose your erections depending on how much you drink.  lastly, go to hihealth or gnc and buy testosterone. they sell it in a pill form. that should kill 2 birds with one stone...... get your testosterone up and "it" up.
you will not get ed from this,if you entirely lose function go see a doc right away. if youve never really touched a girl, trust me you wont have a hard time getting it up.!!! dont stop whacking it, once you get out of the honeymoon phase youll see you will need your skills again,  especially when she gets pregnant!!!   also.....how are you engaged and youve never touched a girl or had a girlfriend??????? arranged marriage???? that doesnt make sense
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My husband is 49, he has erections every morning. When he notices that he has some problems he takes Extagen. Nothing else. He takes a course once a year. We have sex 3-4 times a week.
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fantastic!

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Not getting morning wood on a daily basis is possibly a sign of penile exhaustion, maybe masturbating too much, but it would have too be way too much.  Loss of testosterone, too, would cause this.

Solution is easy: exercise is alleged to restore lost testosterone, as well as benefitting you in many other ways, too, to this I can attest.  A while back I stopped having morning wood (nocturnal tumescence) as well, and wasn't very happy about it.  I quit smoking cigarettes, stopped doing drugs, and took up jogging for 20-25 min, 5 days a week.  My morning wood has returned.
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am also not able to hold my erection...for a long time...am still a virgin....
But on my first date..with my GF....she blamed me that am not a virgin.......as my foreskin is not intact (easily gets bk of shaft...) She enjoys my ****.....v had not involved in intercouse....just ORAL SEX AND PETTING......So am still virgin..!!!!

Is it bcoz of my 8yrs masturbation...????I had'nt told abt my 8 yrs masturbation to my GF...???

shud i go forward and tell it to my fiancee.....so as to avoid future problems...!!!!

HOW TO HOLD THE ERECTION FOR A LONG TIME...???
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I don't know about what you should tell her regarding your 8 yrs of masturbation, that's a potentially tricky subject, and I couldn't give you good advice in that matter... the "angel" on my shoulder says that you should give it to her straight & be honest, while the "devil" says that you should say whatever will create  the best response... so I'll leave that one to you.

As for maintaining erections... I used to have that problem, too, and I think that there are many factors involved.  Exercise, and all things healthy essentially help with good erectile function.  Also, maybe consider eating some dark chocolate or other aphrodisiac (energy drink with ginseng, sugar, tea, I hear oysters work, etc.) as mild stimulant.  Good luck, and feel free to ask more questions, the more specific the better.
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I watch alot of PORN movies and masturbate ......I do all this when am alone.....
So the problem now is::--If i watch PORN movies with my friends(male)...i don't feel the wood .....my penis is soft ......whereas if i watch it alone...i g8 some HOT ERECTIONS(by feeling my penis).......Otherwise..i get some hot erections only by touching and feeling it...!!!!!! I don get it by itself...wch i was g8in yrs ago..!!!!!!
I am a daily surfer of  PORN SITES....i donno its driving me crazyyyy.....!!!!!

At de most i can control myself by not masturbating to only 3-4 days in a row...
Should i abandon masturbating to win the battle...??? :(



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I'm sorry, herod, but I have a hard time understanding what you're saying here.  Not getting erections with your friends should be a good thing, no?

And did you say that you are bothered because you can't get hot erections by yourself, you need porn, as opposed to 8 years ago?  That's fairly normal: hell, I remember 3 years ago there was this girl with a great butt who would walk around, and we would say hi to eachother, she was really friendly, everytime she saw me she was really nice etc., I'd get a hard-on everytime she would walk into the cafe, and once when I saw her on the street, I got hard, and had to monitor the bulge in my jeans all the way home... people noticed me looking down there, walking funny & that.  Stupid anecdote.  Anyways, that doesn't happen anymore, probably for a variety of reasons, but one important factor is that I've stressed so much about erections since then, that it stopped being a game and became nothing short of a matter of life-and-death... that stress alone can do alot!  Also as you get older you produce less testosterone, and sex doesn't have that same forbidden appeal that it whose had... the more it sex becomes a science, the less fun it becomes and, unfortunately, the less you enjoy it and, worse, lose the ability to have spontaneous erections if only because you WANT THEM SO BADLY... a deep part of you kills them as soon as they occur, it's essentially stage-fright.

Like one of those tossers known as The Beatles said: IT's ALL IN THE MIND... at least most of it is!
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ok Pal....!!!!!!! done....
So u mean to say....v get erections only v are in need of 'em(very badly)....taz right...!!!!! :)
1>I actually wanted to know...whether such problems are faced only by me...or by evaone (or most of  de men)....??? :-/

As i hv told u in my previous post..tat i can avoid wanking for jus 3-4 days in a row.....
2>So could u tell me how many times a week I can masturbate...??
3>Now a days i do it 2-3 times a week...Is it NORMALL????

I think am addicted to porn sites....????  So on my first n8 with my wife...
4>Will I be able to enjoy the same way as i was g8in throu porn sites..!!!!!As it is a Question on my man hood..!!Plz help meee...!!!!

5>If u don mind...may i know more about u....??? Am jus' impressed by ur impeccable suggestions....Are u a Doctor??


Plz answer all my 5 Ques.....!!!!!!!!!!! :) :)
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Hello again, herod!  Hope you're keeping it cool...

1) No, I think many men probably face such problems.  I don't really know, but I think many of them have the same problems without knowing it.  For instance, back about three years ago, even though I would get spontaneous erections, when I actually masturbated I would lose my erections, but that's because I used to do alot of drugs.  Now that I exercise, I am alot better than I used to be, but somehow I feel less energetic all the same.  I think we get used to things as humans, it's kinda the human condition... the same rule that applies to drugs applies to sobriety, too... you're always trying to recapture that last great "high," you'll feel really good, and then your brain adjusts and comes to expect that level of pleasure, and anything less makes you angry and feel like you're missing out!  And the more you stress about it, the worse it gets...

2) I masturbate once every day, always at night, because if I masturbate when I wake up I'm tired all day, and if I masturbate more than once (which I do occasionally, when I'm really horny) it isn't as fun anymore.  The downside is that I'm used to masturbating once a day, and frankly can't get to sleep otherwise.

3) Doing it 2-3 times a week is great, sounds about perfect according to many health professionals, that way it's still a special occasion, and it's probably more enjoyable as you have more sexual energy to release.  I should actually try cutting down to that amount myself!

4) Having real sex is much different from masturbating to porn sites, it'll probably be highly experimental for both of you.  It feels like ages (about 2 years) since I've been with anyone, that's because I've had alot of problems and have lost alot of self-esteen, dont want to subject a poor innocent female to my presence... I annoy myself alot.

5) Haha, no, sorry, I'm not a doctor.  I like to think that I'm really smart, and I am a University student who has learned alot about being healthy and sexual health in general lately, for personal reasons of self-improvement.  I'm much more well-read than most people my age, which is why my writing is so good.  Sorry, hope I haven't given you the wrong impression... don't think you're listening to a professional here, pal!

Good luck, herod, I'm sure you'll be fine.  The less you worry about this, the better it will go, the happier you and your girl will be...
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My comment about having such good writing isn't meant to be snobby in any way... I notice that many people use a kind of shorthand writing, which seems to be the norm on the net, the only reason I don't use such shorthand myself is because I don't feel right, it seems silly to readjust my writing method just to fit in... and I don't feel like I'm expressing myself clearly unless I write as it were, "properly."  I'm also obsessive-compulsive, always have been, and as soon as I see an error my hand goes back and corrects it.  I don't mean to come off as a snob...
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thnx a lot pal....  :)  ;)     aLL dE beSt 4 ur FutUre

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Thank you, mister herod, likewise, the same to you, I wish you all the best... with your girl & your life, hang in there and may you live long & prosper!
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The life is a miracle.
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he said he only gets erections when he touches his penis and it wont get erect just by itself by the way... just thought id throw that in seeing as its probably quite an important thing to cover
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i started mastrabation since the age of 11years maybe 10.  I really didn't know what it was at the time but it just relieve a lot of stress for me, it felt really good. I took out the stress that i was going through as a child. Is this the real reason for my "ED" now  OOOhhh. gosh.  I'm only 30, This should be my prime to find the right girl in my life but how can i when im not going to be able to perform like i once did by myself..  Is there any alternative treatment besides viagra kegeal excercises, diet and excersice.  Can any one answer me, Can I still live a normal life.
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hello i just wanna know what will happen if i dont have any wet dreams even though i'm 15
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i started masturbation wen i ws 14..i used to masturbate on a daily basis by watching porn movies or by jus thinking of it...(2-3 times a day)
im 22 now,,my testicles are loose nw,,and my left testicle is larger than the right one...now .i use to come very fast in 2mins only...
and im worried about my sex life,,,i fully stopped masturbating nw,,,wat should i do??can i get harm frm this 8yrs of masturbation???...

suggest me plz??
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A related discussion, no erection in morn ... pls pls help was started.
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plz stop it if u do it then u can not look good. it is also a health hazard. it also make a lot of acne pimples on your face.a lot of stretchness or in hindi"jhoorria". it also loose your confidence. to stop it.... take a shower when u think about it..... or dont think about sex. .. make yourself busy.... marry wid any gal....
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plz stop it if u do it then u can not look good. it is also a health hazard. it also make a lot of acne pimples on your face.a lot of stretchness or in hindi"jhoorria". it also loose your confidence. to stop it.... take a shower when u think about it..... or dont think about sex. .. make yourself busy.... marry wid any gal....
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