i wouldnt worry about the social side effects of getting circumcised. If it is in the name of sexual health, it sounds worth it to me.
Take charge of your health, that includes your penis. Get circumcised if that will solve your ,penis, medical issues. Women love a man who takes charge and most importantly takes care of himself.
Get a couple more opinions from different urologists. Ask what medical treatments are available (you don't say what the nature of your problem is) that you could try first before resorting to surgery.
When an uncircumcised male is erect, his penis looks exactly the same as a circumcised one. A girl who really loves you won't care, anyway. When I met my husband, his was the first uncircumcised penis I ever saw. I might have thought it was a funny looking thing at first, but all penises are funny looking fellows, if you ask me!