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Small Penis

by pianoman12, Mar 07, 2007 12:00AM
I have an embarrassing question.  Im 20 years old with a really small penis. When erect, it only measures about 4" , and just as round as a quarter.  when not erect, it measures like 1"  i just want to know why my penis isn't as big as other guys.  I mean people my age usually have a big penis.  I am so afraid to have sex with my girlfrien, bc im afraid that she won't even feel it, or laugh at me.  Does anyone have answers?  Does anyone else have this problem?  I think that im the only guy in the world with this problem.  IF ANYONE HAS ANSWERS PLEASE HELP ME!!  
THANKS
Member Comments (15)

by slazman999, Mar 08, 2007 12:00AM
i completely forgot what its called but its a hormone deficiency in early childhood and yes there are other guys out there with this problem....sorry i don't think there is anything you can do for it

by hammers18, Mar 08, 2007 12:00AM
m8 got same problem as u there got to be some think out there to help us but dont no were

by pianoman12, Mar 08, 2007 12:00AM
since im 20 years old, do you think that my penis can still grow?

by Kate987, Mar 08, 2007 12:00AM
In all honesty, as a 19 year old female, size doesn't matter as much as how you use it.  I've dated a guy before with a smaller penis and it was some of the best sex I've ever had.  If your girlfriend cares about you, she won't laugh and will take it for what it is.  I think it's more important for the guy to have better oral skills anyway =)  Try not to worry about it.  
Best wishes,
Kaitlin

by RockRose, Mar 08, 2007 12:00AM
Pianoman,   it's a real possibility your girlfriend knows your size already.    Penises look like fingers, and most girls know that.  

You have more than enough to satisfy her,  if you just move the right way.  If you act like your breath is taken away by her body,  and you are kind and sweet and giving,  you're fine.  

Some men are so big that they hurt their partners,  or are hard to have oral sex with.    Just be imaginative,  and loving,  and you'll do great.

by otot_mu_bahu, Mar 09, 2007 12:00AM
To: pianoman12
i think it's not a big deal afterall.  however, this is an advice from my colleague, and i sumtyms find it amusing since it added a little bit of "height" to my friend down there.

he told me to stretch the "P" after getting out of bed in the morning for almost 5 mins a day.  just stretch it form the end to the shaft.  

i think it helps a better blood circulation in that area that's why it might be of help.

but the more impt thing is that u can play long time (in bed) ...

u must improve ur oral skills and a long player...that will satisfy her.






by hammers18, Mar 09, 2007 12:00AM
no what u mean size doesnt matter but it does to me it so small it alright for other man with big penis or average any 1 no excersize or cream or anythink that works for bigger penis it had coz u think a girl is goin to laugh at u

thanx in advence
hammers

by Joalbert, Mar 16, 2007 12:00AM
To: Pianoman
I just wanted to tell you that all a woman needs is 2 inches. Bhond that we don't have nerves endings that will feel a longer penis. Thats why we can put a tampons in and not feel it.  Plus if you're worried about your girlfriend carring abou the size, which I don't think she'll care, but you got foreplay, thats what woman needs the most, if you good foreplay and she reaches climax you won't have anything to worry about.

by CollegeGirlie, Mar 20, 2007 12:00AM
Don't worry, pal. To be honest, sometimes bigger ones actally HURT the girl more than anything. So don't worry about it. Many of my girlfriends prefer smaller over larger anyway. Size seems to be more of a guy to guy machismo thing, women don't really care. Besides, aren't we the ones that matter anyway? :)  Have fun and be safe.

by Seanboy86, Oct 22, 2008 05:42PM
To: its not the size that counts its what you do with it
i am 22 and have been in the same boat u r n!

dont let the fact that you think you are small, i am about 5 1/4
up until i was about 20 i was about 3 inches long! i felt the same way until something happened and it grew a few inches in about a year. by the time i was 21 i was average.

my point is that i thought i would have nothing to bring to the table, that my size would completely turn her way and i would be no good at all. well it is not the size that counts it is what u do with it, that saying is true. even with what i have i am awesome according to her, also improve your oral skills!!!! that will help to keep your girl happy.

by madmax0007, Jul 12, 2009 12:12PM
To: all
dont worry about the size man , by the way u can use a  vaccume pump and pills to increase ur size i was 6" and i used a pump and  pills  and it increased my size and girth to 1.5 ins .but is takes time and excerise.

by Bryan61, Aug 13, 2009 02:10PM
To: pianoman12
I am almost the exact same size as you. It can be a bit daunting if somewhere public being that size. Public showers at the gym and the like can be tough when you see prepubescent kids that seem bigger than you. Fortunately it sounds like you are a grower and 4 inches is not bad. My wife has never complained a bit and like I said I am almost identical size. She is satisfied and we have a child so the things you use it for are not affected by being 4 inches.

by lukasmaximus, Aug 14, 2009 04:46PM
To: pianoman12
im 18 and mine is only 5" erect and i havnt measured it flaccid coz that aint important.
my girlfriend has had sexy many times and she said that mine was big!?!?!
but the only thing is...it goes erect when she gives hand job or oral...but then when we decide to have sex i put on the condom and then i go flaccid!! i kept thinking it the lube on the condom but i think its pressure or something. she then gets imbarressed and goes home straight away :(
penis size isnt a big issue! the vagina adapts to the size of the penis from like sizes 3" and upwards. and if my fingers give her great pleasure! then my penis is bound to :P if it doesnt go flaccid agen :@

by jeandeaux, Aug 23, 2009 12:50PM
What is the rest of your body like?  Are you overweight?  

If so, is some of your penis being hidden by the extra belly?  

If not, then I have no idea how to answer your question.

by kinglv, Sep 18, 2009 11:37AM
Buddy

It does feel **** being short.It realy doesnt matter cos you need to live with it.Someone needs to be small as well isnt it.Oral skills is very important.It wont make you feel beter but it would help you keep your partner happy.Depends whats more important to you.Go to see a chiniese herbalist.If you doing the pubity thing late then there are something he can give you to add a inch or two.I think you got till you 21.Hey take a chance.No one want to feel bad about their body anyways.

Hope it goes well
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