Hi, a few months ago my girlfriend cheated on me with another nf male. Since then I have moved on with someone new, while becoming sexually active with this woman my penis started to change. It has taken on a wrinkly scaly effect when flaccid but they wrinkles are not rough. I have seen my local doctor about this who said it looked like balanits and gave me cream which has not helped. I recently was std tested and everything came back negative except for herpes simplex 1. My girlfriend has periodtidal dermotitus (I think that's how it's spelled) and I think that may be the cause? All the wrinkles go away when erect so what could this be? Help!!