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i can only ejaculate when i masturbate a specific way

I'm a 16-year-old male, and I've been masturbating frequently since I was 13. however, its come to my attention after reading an article on "prone masturbation" that I'm only capable of ejaculating while lying on my stomach with my penis erected downward over the edge of a bed, table, or chair. I know I can orgasm and ejaculate, because I've done it everytime I masturbate, I just can't reach that peak when I use my hand and lie on my back.
I did some follow-up research on prone masturbation and I've learned that its a new subject, and isn't accepted by most physicians. So my question is, is prone masturbation a legitimate condition and not an internet hoax, and if so, how can I get into masturbating the standard way again?
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I recently met a 50 year old man who has masturbated in this fashion since young and as a result he can NOT climax when with a woman. He has been like this for at least 15 years (maybe more he won't admit how long). Apparently the friction from the female genitalia/mouth is too soft so it does not mimic the feeling of the bed. He told me of an experience where he went to have testing at a fertility clinic with his wife and he had to hump the floor in the "porn room" in order to fill the cup. How NASTY!!! Can you imagine this for the rest of your life??? Can you imagine being married to your wife and having to watch her as you hump the bed to have an orgasm for the rest of your life??? I would STRONGLY urge you to retrain yourself to climax using the standard masturbation technic with the hand.
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belive me mate you wont have a problem when it comes to girls thats a whole diffrent ball game and as far as fartherhood goes you ejaculate so its not an issue . i agree with blueeyes do what works for you and relax as you will not c ome it you worry about it ! good luck x x
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no, i'm still a virgin. its the possible inability to father children in the future that's got me worried. i know i'm only 16, but i'm a goal-oriented person, and i greatly desire a wife and children. plus, when i do have sex for the first time, i don't want to be embarassed that i can't *** for her.
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i know exactly what you mean mate, i can generally only *** when i am on my back. but i have learnt to *** sitting up too.

the thing is you do not have a problem and don't even think you have a problem, so many sexual issues are psychological not all but many, you just have to learn to be relaxed when you are either doing it to yourself or having someone else do it, really get into your thoughts and enjy it, if you cant *** any other way then you are thinking too much about it.

relax enjoy it and make sure you try different positions, i agree that your best position for you is in that way, but when someone else is with you it may be different, but practice other positions, and relax and enjoy yourself....thats why you do it.

have you ever been with anyone before? in a sexual way? it may be a different case there matey

all the best
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