penis size

[fulloquestions]

ummm ya i fell weird but here is how the story goes when i ways a baby my parents thaught i was alredy in enough pain cause i had
been sick and had needles in me so deicided NOT to get me circumcised now at the age of 13 i feel when i don't have an erection it is too small oh i have a nother question but please answer this first

thank you

[09999]

umm.. well i dont really think i understand what your saying, so next time set out the question in a more readable way.
but a lot of men or boys are worried about their penis size. its probably nothing to worry about. i'd say average for a full grown male is probably about 6 inches. But dont worry if its less. They come in all different shapes and sizes.

[09999]

yep, 6 inches errect. and i agree with everything u said.
:)13 is too young to worry about this sorta thing.

[BeaumontBoy]

13 is not to young to think about sex and stuff. Its the best age to start learning. in fact you should really ask your father. if he is not around ask an uncle older brother or something. also 6 inch is about avg when hard. some are real short when soft. some dont gain in size when hard so they are 6 inch soft. with all that said size when soft means nothing at all. cant do anything with a softone. also you still have some growing to do. when you turn 18 and still think this way talk with your dr about and get tested for hypogonadism. you can talk with your Dr now if you think you can. also if you dont want your mother or father in the room with you when you are at your dr office ask them to leave. your dr can not tell them anything at all.

[JoAnnaRF]

I have two teenaged sons and I think it is totally normal to be thinking of these things. And the masturbation question as well.It is SO TOTALLY normal to masturbate and is actually necessary. Men have to have that release weather it be intentional through masturbation or spontaneous through nocturnal emissions (wet dreams) It is going to happen. I don't  talk to my sons that much about these things since I don't share the same equipment and who feels comfortable talking to MOM about this stuff, but they do talk to their Dad and each other about these things, and they have come to me when they were worried about things being "wrong". And they were told before puberty, what to expect and what was normal. My husband didn't want them freaking out when they had a wet dream or their first erection like he did with NO info from his parents.
AS for size.. hmm... You are but 13. You are still growing and have a LOT to look forward to. My husband says 6 inches is the norm. And Bigger is NOT better. I totally agree with oceans that us gals really appreciate the head on your shoulders and the love in your heart more than anything.  If being uncircumsized bothers you, tell your Dad. It isn't too late to have the procedure but it is a lot better to have it done as an infant. Less complications. But you have what God gave you and that is just fine. Try not to worry too much. Enjoy school, sports, video games, and being a teenager. There is plenty of time to worry about all that serious stuff later.
--J

[fulloquestions]

thanks you really help a lot

[JoAnnaRF]

oceans>> I would be so upset if I thought my sons were worried over something like Size. Maybe they do. I don't know. Maybe all boys worry over it. Who started that nasty rumor that size makes a bit of difference anyways?  I can't get that silly saying out of my head, "It's not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean." LOL Remember that one? True yes, but oh so cheesy. According to my husband, he started thinking about sex and his "stuff" at birth. LOL
This new forum is so great to learn a thing or two for everyone, even us girls.
*hugs* to the Wolverines!
--J

[Needinfoplease]

You know I just started coming to this forum and as I read the comments, I remember feeling some of the same things I read others going through.  Guys always are wondering if they are "ok" and are going to be accepted in school and with their friends as I'm sure girls are.  At 13 I'm sure the showers at school are coming into play and every guy (I would guess) worries or did, if they are "normal" and or have the "normal" size penis or are over weight or have bigger muscles and so on.  I think as you grow in age and maturity you realize big penis, small penis, heavy or skinny there is someone out there for you.  It has been mentioned that girls want bigger breast, I understand why but the truth is there are some of us the love smaller breasts!!  As I've gained knowledge I've learned one great thing; there is someone out there that will find everything or almost everything about you to be exactly what they what from a partner.  The problem is I spent many nights and years wounding what other people thought instead of enjoying my time in school.  My suggestions is

[maryheather]

Very well said.  My sentiments exactly, and you stated it beautifully for this young man.  Nice to see a sensitive, well-spoken man on the board!!
(All of the rest of you are, as well, he just stated his opinion so nicely....)
Have a great day....MH

[JoAnnaRF]

Oceans>> You are so right about teen and tween girls. I know I sure worried over it WAY too much! Fact is I hadn't even thought to compare the boys worry over penis size to a girls worry over breast size. And needsinfo spoke in a way that applied to both girls and boys! The whole time I was reading the post I was thinking, WOW, that was Sooo me in middle and high school. I suppose we all feel the same way and just assume that everyone else is full of self confidence.  
oceans also pointed out that girls do not have the ability to just hide if they are well endowed or not, the world can see what she has. Another point that does mark the differences in girls and boys is that girls have it thrown into their faces constantly by the opposite sex,other women, advertising, t.v., movies, magazines, etc... that bigger breasts are BETTER. Men just do not experience that the way women do.
I was very lucky to have found one of the people that needinfo spoke of that finds every (or almost every) part of me EXACTLY what he wants and needs!
Wow this is insightful. I am sure learning a lot! And isnt it nice MH to have men informing us with respect? There are some really nice guys here and I for one am realy enjoying learning from them.
Have a great day everyone!
--J

[Needinfoplease]

Wow, first of all thank you for the nice comments!!  Even when you believe something it is nice to hear that your thoughts are well received by others!!

Second, I

[goober1]

Actually the average size of the male penis is 5 1/4 erect.  The reason I know is because I was once worried sick about it and at 13 I was probably not even close to that but unless things have changed and it is quite possible they have, but I did my research at 17 so there is a gap of research of 12 years but I doubt it is significant.  Size only really matters to us men, the female is basically concerned with how you use the tool.  I measured myself at 18 and I was 7" and that was a big difference from 13 but even today I think I am too small but I dont concern myself with it because if the woman really wants you or girl for that matter she will not care....there are plenty ways to please a woman outside of penial penetration.  Don't lose sleep over it, you will be fine in the end....trust me.

[bo_by]

I dont think this has anything to do with any of this but i am 15 years old and i have a gf that is older then me by a year or so and me and her have talked about haveing sex and everything i am still a virgin and she isnt and my penis size fully erected is about 5 1/2 - 6 inches and i ve never had sexx befor and i was just wonder if i could get some advice or anything and if i would be able to please her

[beck13]

Actually, i live in Nigeria and there are many guys with huge **** around. The truth is that, girls love huge ****, there is no two ways about that and we love a good size boobs too.

[axion]

do not get cut it is not a good idea i was cut and i hate it

[fun86]

how to enlarge pennis size naturally.???

[hurtnconfused]

i was Circumcised as an infant and 19 now am just finding out about it i feel violated . no one had the right to do that to me i hate my mom for it .are circumsised penises smaller than natural ones and every one tells me i dont know what im missing is there any way to decircumcise some one

thank you

[pdj]

You're absolutely fine. 6" at 13 years old is at least normal, if not above normal. You have about 7 more years of puberty too, buddy. The fact that you are uncircumcised has nothing to do with your size; if anything, you'll be bigger, because you don't have anything holding it back! I agree with the other guys: I was circumcised at birth and I HATE IT.

[teenageralert]

I'm a british 14 year old, and am extremely secretive about the fact that my penis is circumsized. I was circumsized at a young age, hardly remember it, but hate my parents for it. I'd like to do all sorts of things with girls but I think they would just say 'Eww, look at it, it's all ugly and horrible..noway'. In Britain, it's just not the 'done thing' whereas in America I've heard it's good for social reasons and it's accepted. Do teenage girls accept if a penis is circumsized, because when it comes to sex i'd rather save the embaressment of a girl saying no and spreading around about my penus 'issue'.

On a worrying secondary note, whenever I masterbate I have to use some sort of lubricant. This is usually water and , sick as it may seem, my own mucus. I've tried many-a time to masterbate without lubricants but found that pleasure is low and I become un-erect. I am worried something is wrong with my penis. Does this mean that when it comes to sex I will not sperm?

Please reply in a civil and decent manner, I am using the name anonymous because I am extremely embarressed about my penis. Thank you for reading this and hopefully you can answer my questions.

[55]

yea umm  i just turn 13 3 months ago and my penis size is 2 and a half inches and i want to know is that the right size for my age....

[natural man]

I was not circumcised at birth, as were no other males in my family.  When my two sons were born, the doctors insisted that circumcision was necessary, so I consented.  I have since learned more about this matter and regret those decisions.  I have also apologized to my sons for this.

[iaintsure]

i am 13 and i think i suffer from phomosis. this means that i cant get my bellend out of my foreskin. i find this highly embaressing and no1 else nows. i also worry about the size of penis. could the phomosis be stunting the growth. has anyone had the sam problem and could help me thanks

[soufboi]

hi
im 17 and the length of my penis is about 6 inches and the girth is about 4 inches is this normal?
i think that it is quite skinny but you girls can be the judge of that
also if a penis is skinnier does that mean that it does not please the girl?
how skinny can a penis actualy be to please a girl?

[penistosmall]

i have the same problem, im almost 16 and my penis hasnt even grown any, i dont know if there is something wrong, i want a bigger penis, but i see others in showers younger than me with larger units....please help..i want to know if something is wrong...thank you

[mark1298]

hey bud dont listen to these women there just bull sh.tting you. the truth is penis size matters to alot of women. maybe the few that are on here dont really care that much about size. there just lying to you to make you feel better they dont want you knowing the truth.

trust me every person on this site will tell you the same thing that penis size is not that important but the truth is is that size is very important. these women just dont wanna hurt your feelings so there lying to you. as far as size you should have at least 6 inches any less than that and women are gonna complain and make fun of you. if your penis is small make an appointment with your doctor and tell him and have your hormone levels checked especially testosterone.

if you have low testosterone then youll wind up having a small ******. you might need some testosterone shots to make your penis bigger and possibly some growth hormone as well. go to the doctors and have a check see while your still young. dont wait forever because if you do then youll be 16 years old with a small ****** and no girls are gonna wanna have sex with you.

or if you do have sex with them it will be embarrasing for you and behind your back they will laugh at you and make jokes about your little ******. trust me i dont have a small penis but i know some guys that do and they have a tough time with women and iv heard the women laugh at them behind there backs alot of times and make jokes about them being too small and not being able to satisfy them. it really hurt there feelings when i told them there girlfriends were laughing at them behind there backs. dont let these women on here fool you about penis size because it definetly matters to most women. there might be a small percentage and i mean small percentage of women that dont care but most do care. JUST BEING HONEST AND STRAIGHT FORWARD WITH YOU
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