That's kind of what we were thinking or wondering if it would help ! I have but not on a regular basis or anything as it is very difficult . Thanks
Leaking due to coughing a lot and real hard could be to do with weak bladder muscle control.
A doctor would confirm whether this is the case.
I don't think he would stop producing it just because he can't achieve erections. Perhaps you could still stimulate him so he can have an orgasm and release it regularly.