to circumsize or not?

[deprivedteen]

Hello,
    I'm 18 years old and at 15ish I realized that I had an uncircumcised penis. This really bothered me because I realized I was different. I've watched movies where uncircumsized guys are made fun of, and naturally I've tried to keep this a secret. So I never bothered to try to get a girlfriend and at times I even blew off subtle approaches by women for fear that they would find out, and that then everyone else in turn would find out and make fun of me to no end.
    
    I have a few questions. For the women out there ( I guess men can answer this too), do women mind if a guy has an uncircumsized penis?
    I've been trying to do research on the internet on where to get circumsized and if this is the right choice. I don't want to tell my parents because they aren't from this country and it'd be hard to explain. I'm 18 now so if anyone has any information regarding where I could get circumsized in northern new jersey (phone number and preferably address) I'd greatly appreaciate it. Also, does anyone know approximately how much an adult circumcision costs?

     Am I just being paranoid by thinking that women are put off by an uncircumsized penis? I saw an episode of Sex and the City where Charlotte wouldn't have sex with a guy becuase he was uncircumsized. Then naturally, she tells all her friends. Any feedback at all would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

[007swife]

dont be insecure about it.........do what you think is best for you though

[Silly_but_Cute]

I love to see people so proud and happy, your a new man. Go get em tiger!

[mslkpage]

You've received great information here. I dated a guy in college that was not circumcised. And, just like PammySue, I didn't even know it until AFTER we had sex!! I think I was 21 at the time. Even though it wasn't exactly like my previous boyfriend's, it didn't matter one bit.

[PammySue]

Yeah, no worries, mate.  My husband didn't tell me about it before hand.  First time I noticed was first time we showered and we had already had sex a few times by then.  And I was definitey already hooked!! But I did have to ask just because I didn't know, LOL!  Go for it!

[Mertek]

Mail order bride, nice! hahahahahaha!! I hope things work out with the girl back at college. ;)

[deprivedteen]

Thanks for all the replies! The feedback about the women's point of view was unexpected. I must have posted in an angel's only section or something. Maybe I've been kidding myself all these years. I guess life is just all about confidence. I think I'm going to sit down and watch "Swingers" again while I tell myself over and over again that I'm money.

I've decided to stay uncircumsized at this point in my life. I feel more confident as I write this. I'd like to thank everyone for responding! Now on to adult friend finder... just kidding. When I go back to college I'm going to ask this girl out that I've had a crush on all of frosh year in college. If things don't work out, I'll order a bride from China. Win/win right? HAH! But truly, thank you everyone, I guess you brought out the confident jokester inside me again.