Congratulations on 11 years of marriage. Your husband needs medical help and support from his family (and wife).
Hi,
The causes of facial muscle spasms are- Huntington’s disease, Hypocalcemia, Hypoparathyroidism, Levine- Critchley syndrome, Machado- Joseph disease, Sydenham chorea, Tourette syndrome and many others. Your husband needs medical help. Spasms are beyond his control. It seems you have not consulted a doctor. Please consult a physician and neurologist and go for examination, routine investigations like blood tests and MRI of the brain and spine to know the cause of the symptoms. Hope this helps you. Take care and regards!