I'm hitting absolute rock bottom... my "HOCD" started about a year ago... 2.5 years ago my dad died, and I have been depressed ever since and have never been able to feel happy... slowly, ive been getting worse and worse and worse. I can't concentrate, I waste a ton of time on the internet (like now, compulsively trying to reassure and find answers). I think my HOCD started around the time I started going to dating sites such as POF, I had some bad experiences/ no luck, and then I had some gay dreams (not me doing anything gay, but naked men) and then I started obsessing about this guy at my work who I got pissed off at for various reasons, and then the intrusive thoughts came, the terror came, the doubt, the panic attacks, etc... This guy would not leave my head, he kept popping up, it was terrible. Now, he's gone, and some other guy in my class is constantly popping up into my head, and I absolutely hate it I yell go away out loud. I become severly disabled, super depressed, and I don't want to continue on any more... I just want to disappear somewhere and have this go away... I first had sex with a girl when I was 16 and now i'm 20, since that first one i've been with a few, out which one was a so called relationship which didn't last long, and the last one was just a bad expirience... during the so called relationship i was in, even while having sex, or after sex, I would have some intrusive thoughts pop up... after sex, I would be driving home constantly doubting myself if I enjoyed it (even though I know during sex I was) this didn't happen everytime, but enough to terrorize me... this whole HOCD has been on and off, but it's mostly on and it's terrible, I want it to stop... i've been to 2 counselors and nothing has happened, I can't seem to follow their advice and i'm very stubborn as it is (always have been) who do I turn to?