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Hello I'm a 14 yr male and I have had his hocd for 4 months and think I now have tocd I have been kind of obsessing about it not as much because I'm obsessing about hocd more but yesterday I a was on  my phone looking  at videos and I came across a female singer with a pink hair and I had a thought that I want  pink hair and it made m feel unconfortable and I went  in a state of distress and I started looking into tocd forums and I read that it is very common to go from hocd to tocd I don't think I'm in full tocd mode yet I do feel a bit of anxiety
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What about that comment I saw that some people are straight until they find there True attractions
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1699033 tn?1514113133
You are not telling me anything I haven't already heard from other people on here.  I really wish you would talk to your parents so that they can get you the proper help.  You don't have to suffer with this.  
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Yes I've seen it before but is it possible to have hocd and actually be gay ? And I started having this feeling in grion area it feels like I'm getting an erection and it's making not even look at guys instead I focus on girls
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1699033 tn?1514113133
Did I share this link with you?  It is written by a gay guy....http://www.brainphysics.com/yourenotgay.php
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I need I'm scared I was reading a forum post and it said that a guy thought he had hocd but he was bI I don't want to bi nor gay and I read a comment that some people live a life as a straight person before findING they're True attraction reading this made me scared I started to cry I what if am gay and all my life was a lie or what if Im bI Im scared please help me
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1699033 tn?1514113133
As to the violent thoughts you are getting....that is because you are mentally drained.  YOu want this to go away and you want it to go away now.  If you talk to your parents, they can make an appt for you with a psychologist.  You can't do it yourself so you need to get your parents involved.  If you don't want to say HOCD specifically then say that you are having anxiety...thoughts of worry that you can't get rid of and that it is messing up your life and you would like to see a doctor.  
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1699033 tn?1514113133
I don't believe it is possible to wake up and become gay because I think it is genetic.  It would always be there or it would not.  If you asked a gay guy when he knew he was gay I'm sure he would say from an early age.  Gay people know they are gay and that is why they do not fight the thoughts. If you are fighting the gay thought, that is a sign to me that you are not gay.  
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OK my bad but is it possible to turn gay and  my hocd I woke up with it I know why I got it though but if its not hocd is it possible to wake up one day and be gay!? I really need a response I know w your not obligated but please help it would help me please
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1699033 tn?1514113133
Sorry...I don't share my email.  Everything needs to be discussed on the forum.  
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Can I email you JGf25 I really need to talk to someone about something its really bothering me I'm spiked and you please rely asap thank you
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the ocd will keep on switching from one form to another, unless you get help from a psychiatrist.Take the big step tell your parents about your problem and consult a psychiatrist, otherwise things will only get worse and you will suffer more and more.
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Yes and no I have not talked to my parents about it I'm doing more ch better with my hocd I still get the thoughts not as much though and I'm now getting a lot of violent thoughts is this normal
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1699033 tn?1514113133
This is all related to the original HOCD post and to OCD in general.  Did you ever discuss with your parents?  
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