Thank you for the reply. That was very insightful and helpful. And yes, he is an only child. And I've tried to change subjects but he insists on staying on that subject. Maybe I'll look more into that "only child" thing. It sounds like you are on to something. Thanks again for your reply!
I have severe OCD and do not have anything similar to what you are talking about. One of my parents does slightly remind me of a person similar to what you are talking about. Is OCD genetic? I think I read that it was so maybe this is some sort of form of OCD. Clinging to past events and dragging them around and putting them on display for the world to see. Honestly, my opinion (and I am certainly no doctor) is that this seems to be more of a personality issue than anything else. Many people with OCD are very mild, kind, understanding, value others' opinions, etc. In fact, most people who are in contact with many OCD sufferers never even realize there is a problem. I have had only one close friend ever realize I had OCD and she only recognized it because her sister had been diagnosef with it. By any chance .. is your friend an only child? I know a couple people that have similar personalities to what you described and they are only children. It is the only common denominator I can come up with as to why they think their opinion is more valuable than any one elses and why they must always be right. I do not mean to offend any only children on here.. I know some only children who do not have this issue at all. I am guessing that perhaps this friend must have more qualities and traits that you find attractive than the number of unattractive ones you describe above. You can't change other people. You can only change how you react. My guess would be that if you and your friends ignored him when he began a rant and didn't make replies to encourage his behavior he would realize you didn't like it. No one ever argued with theirself. Try changing the subject.