Give her a foot massage before and after if i were you. Best wish
Peace
Jun
By just being there you are giving her mre support than you can ever imagine. Somehow my ex I do not know if it was intentional or not ( we are not on good terms) put me back on his insurance with his union, which saves me alot of money and effort, even though I am remarried, and we havent spoken in years, there are many, many ways you can help