Hi
I'm learning but still confused. THis is my story. My mother, who is 74, is very ill with Ovarian Cancer (it was malignant and the size of an eggplant), undergoing chemo etc.
I am 47 years old, have MS, but am in otherwise good health. They said as a "normal" screening I should have a vag sonogram and this indicated a cyst. He said "a cyst" and proceeded to go for a 2nd one. He also did the CA 125. That was normal, no cancer cells. The cyst grew slightly and he is now calling it a "complex" cyst and wants to do a lap and because of my age is removing my right ovary. He scared me because he said "parts of the cyst are thicker than other parts which could mean a malignancy and if so a complete hysterectomy"
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I guess I need reassurance. I've never had a irregular period, a bad pap, or any other gynocological problems and I assume he is being conservative and preparing me for the worst scenario. Because of this, I am converned I will have an MS attack and trying to say calm, but seeing my mother die in front of my eyes is scary as hell. She says "have everything removed" and even though we have no children and plan not to, I think that is radical and worry about hormones.
Please help by sharing your experience, strength and courage.
Peace
laurie