Compare this pain to the rupture of the ovarian follicle that occurs each month with ovulation. Those are called "monthly cramps" they are minute compared to a cyst, since most men don't do the monthly thing, ha ha ha, how in the hell do they know about the pain? The pain associated with cysts/tumors is real and needs to be dealt with in a humane fashion. If waiting for them to shrink, or a surgical removal, or post surgery a women needs relief from the pain. Insist on pain relief from the medical field. If you have a pain clinic in your town and the pain is keeping you from your normal activity, give them a call. Pain is a symptom of the body trying to tell you something. My daughters onoco refered her to the pain clinic here in our city. My one concern is though, if you do take pain killers, take them sensibly, do not get an addiction. My heart goes out to all of you, "A womans work is never done" but when pain interfers, that work darn hard to do.
Just a hint, cold scatters, heat gathers. Cold is good to scatter the pain, but it often just sends it somewhere else. Heat draws blood to the area, we have tried alternating heat/cold. With some pain it seems to help. There are tablets that my daughter uses in the shower that seems to relax her alot. Aromic therapy. Also the aromatic candles. At the pain clinic they told her that if you understand your pain and work with it, it will ease up. She is going for massage once a week now. Her insurance is covering it because the Doc ordered it. She uses the medicine ball daily at home to prevent the adhesions. She was on pain pills for 2 weeks post op, then only when she felt she really needed one. Takes an occasional tylenol now, but says she is pain free 99% of the time.
Thanks for the comments. I had been taking vicoprofen for a neck disc compression, but that really doesn't help this pain much at all. I'm supposed to have fusion surgery at the end of January for that, but not too hip on jumping into any surgery. In the case of all the hot/cold packs, aroma candles, etc., I hardly have time to go to the bathroom during the day, much less take care of myself. I have 3 girls - 15, 10, and 20 months and a husband, a household to run, and work part time at home for 3 different companies. I don't think massage or proper time for myself is in the cards right now. That's what sucks about it. Funny how my husband threw out his shoulder a couple weeks ago, and, wow, couldn't do anything, including picking up the baby. We woman have to just suck it up and find something to quickly ease the pain (take a pill, basically) and get on with the day! So, I'll be lucky to even get to another Dr. in the near future. Has taken me a year to even get to the neurologist and then the testing to figure out what was wrong with my neck. I laughed in his face when he told me "no lifting after neck surgery for 2 weeks, and expect about a 3 - 9 month recovery! I might as well leave the country because neither is going to happen. Will wait til the kids are gone and just keep taking that quick fix for now. What else is a woman to do?!
I had a large cyst removed weeks ago and prior to surgery I had the same symptoms. My cyst was on the left side and my front left thigh would hurt and so would my lower back on the left side. I do not remember having any groin pain.
You need to find the balance in your life! Usually woman work 3-4-5 jobs, with 4-6-8 arms around herself! Try to satisfy husband, home, kids, friends, work etc...I know it isn't easy with kids, but you have husband, ASK HIM TO HELP YOU 1-2 hours a day! I know, isn't perfect what they do, but something... Don't kill yourself! You have future and be little bit selfish for 2007! Sue
Waiting for the kids to be gone might be too late for you. They want their mother to be around a long time. Ask hubby the question "What would you do if I am not here"?
Don't be so proud that you can't ask for help from family, friends, church. There are people everywhere that like to help a neighbor. I know because I have helped and been helped many times. Get yourself taken care of soon.