I have a question about my mum. My mum has been fighting ovca since July of 2009. She had the debulking surgery in July of that year. She was originally diagnosed with Ovarian cancer stage 3, in Jan 2010 she was upgraded to stage 4. They had found fluid in her lungs in July '09, they were going to test it for cancer cells and ended up throwing it away. She has had fluid in her lungs ever since, she's always has this congestion and fullness. Well, this past Christmas her dr told her that chemo was killing her faster than her cancer and it wasn't helping. She has gone through 3 rounds of chemo. One regular, the last two were experimental. She has decided to go thru with round 4. We have just been told that her white blood cell count is dangerously low. She is on state funded insurance, she is 63 going to be 64 in Feb. My sisters and I live at all corners of the states and we just have no idea how or what to do. She's very head strong, argumentative. I don't blame her, but we are lost as to how to help her. Her dr said that she will do what she wants. Any help from us or her friends is pushed away. We are at a loss, we feel useless and have no idea as to what to do. Does anyone have any advice?