I send my son 11 to sport overnight camp yesterday. Today I got a call from a camp director, he told me my son stranded one of his roommates and both of his roommates feel threatening by him. I asked if any of his roommates are fine, and non injured by any way. The director said they both fine, but I have to pick up my son immediately, otherwise he will be isolated. He also refuses to give me any refund. When I arrived to pick up my son, he was on the parking lot with the director, with all his belongings. I again asked the director what happen, and how other kids were threatening by my son. He would not give me any more explanation. Then I asked my son, he told me he was playing around and pull a necklace on one of the boy neck but let it go immediately when boy told him he can’t have any air. My son also told me he basically did not have any opportunity to defend himself, because as soon as he admitted pulling on the necklace, the director stopped listening to him. I asked director if this punishment is too severe for what my son did, and if it is possible just make my son to apologize for the kid and be moved to another room. The director said in his opinion it is a very serious crime and my son would be arrested if he call the police. Then I asked him if he can give me some written paper what would state what my son was expelled from a camp and why. He refused. My question is what can I do? I feel it was very unfair to me and my son. Please give me some advice.
Thank you